Can't get it up WTF!!!

[headFirst]

I'm so p!ssed off beyond belief right now. So I've been under a lot of stress with school and deadlines and getting sick with double pneumonia and falling behind.

Last week I had a sorority chicks over she was on her period so she blew me everything was fine.. This week I met up with a girl I saw in the beginning of my semester at the bar.. and took her home.. Everything was going great she was blowing me for a while.. We were drinking obviously so there was some delay.. So she was getting turned on and wanted me to bang her.. in the mixed of things I lost it and couldn't get it back up.. and under the pressure idk just wouldn't work. She's about an hb7.. Anyone else ever get like this?

I've been this way before because of stress and school but f!ck this makes me so mad.. I was ready to bed her .. and my junk wouldn't work.. I've been depressed a lot off and on because of my ex.. but I've been doing better. I am 28 so obviously my libido isn't as strong as it used to be.. and getting over pneumonia im still weak.. But I've never had to deal with this before.. I almost feel like giving up on bedding girls and just focusing on school and that's it.. Until I get my head screwed on straight.. this is so messed up..

She was cool with it.. and told me if I text her I will see her again.. I'm not in love with this girl or anything .. I figured it'd be a physical relationship to hold me over for a while.. am I really at the stage where if I'm not 100% into her I can't bang her??

Someone has had to of been down this road before.. suggestions please!

thankS!

 

[sylvester the cat]

once, when i was 20, i was seeing this hot, firm, 18 year old with the most gorgeous pair of ripe breasts. i would see her every time i was on break from university.

every time we went to bed i could not get it up for her. it was most frustrating. bless her, she blamed herself, but i certainly didn't. she must have got fed up though cos the next time i came down to visit she wasn't DTF anymore. i remember barging into the girl's toilets at the local nightclub and telling her 'but i love you' in true AFC fashion (oh the shame).

it never happened again and i still don't understand why that happened.

possibly on a subconcious level i suspect i could have impregnated her and wifed her up and lived a normal, happy life. the prospect of that at the time was abhorrent to me. if i could go back in time i would probably try and fix that one.

edit: on reflection, it's not that it was abhorrent. more that i didn't think i could have that or deserved that. i actually really liked her. not in an obsessive way. she was a nice girl.

 

[GotED?]

"i remember barging into the girl's toilets at the local nightclub and telling her 'but i love you' in true AFC fashion (oh the shame)."

"possibly on a subconcious level i suspect i could have impregnated her and wifed her up and lived a normal, happy life"----------------------------------------------------------------------

I think Sylvester should be a nominee for 'AFC of the Year' award coming up.

 

[blindnowisee]

It happens to us all - just brush it off and move on.

The deeper issue lies with getting over your ex. I found that after breaking up with my ex I encountered the same when I landed myself a 22yr old. I just couldn't seem to get it up no matter what. Drinking a lot of alcohol doesn't help either. The second problem you might encounter is coming too quickly. I had this problem the first time I had ONS after the breakup with the ex.

Just compare it with a massive hangover.. In the moment you're absolutely gutted however a week after you should be able to look back at it and smile.

 

[sylvester the cat]

Back In 6 Months.

 

[perseverance]

Well, it would be nice to win something for once in my life...

That's what I said when I was playing rough rodeo with a fatty in Nuneaton. Those were my truly bad AFC days when I had a fetish for fat ladies with tectonic titties.

 

[Purefilth]

2x in my life ive not "risen to the occasion". It happens bro Dont get hung up on it

 

[headFirst]

Thanks guys I feel better now. Yea this girl was a 22 yr old.. So she was ready to go.. My Vagina miner wasnt.. He was down for the count and wasn't getting up.

Sylvester..
"she must have got fed up though cos the next time i came down to visit she wasn't DTF anymore."

Yea man that def is a killer.. that makes you feel horrible since you couldn't get the job done and you feel it's your fault.. and you blame yourself..

Meast,

Yea dude that happened to me lol with the last girl I'm still hung up on.. We were on round two.. and I was feeling I was going to finish too soon.. SO I made her switch positions and I felt under pressure to satisfying her and I lost it.. and I couldn't get it up.. She went from super wet to a the mojave desert down there... It was humiliating.. Like with this girl last night I didn't care.. what her thoughts were and she didn't seem to mind.. I was just more pissed at myself.


I think I'm learning though the underlying problem.. Since I got pneumonia.. I lost a weeks worth of studying and fell behind pretty bad in school.. and I've been out of the gym for over a month.. I'm finally getting back in the gym but I know I lost a lot of mass and lost my confidence.. Also, because I'm behind in school I did poorly on my last exam.. I'm a 3.5 gpa student.. so it really bugs me.. and it's always on my mind how much stuff I have to do.. and because my self esteem is a little low from it all I guess I just have no sex drive.. So The best thing for me to do is start doing some self-improvement again.. I was at the top this summer working out... and feelign super confident I need to get back to that.

What do you think your guy's issue was?