So some of the best advice on here is to just "be indifferent" and admittedly, I first started doing this as a facade, but it has become a reality... there is just absolutely no reason to not be indifferent to a woman you've just met. I'll get a girl out 1 on 1, and truly not give a **** about what happens, whether or not there is a second get together or if we hook up or anything, and sure enough, she'll contact me before long. And I'd assume if she wasn't interested, she wouldn't do that. So it seems like being indifferent will naturally weed out the women who aren't that interested or who are on the fence about you.
But can you be too indifferent? I have stopped contacting women I talk to 100%. If I run into them, or they talk to me, I am friendly and upbeat and a bit flirty, but I do not go out of my way to contact any woman and I don't go out of my way to ask them out, it's all done casually.
Will women lose interest if you're too indifferent?
But can you be too indifferent? I have stopped contacting women I talk to 100%. If I run into them, or they talk to me, I am friendly and upbeat and a bit flirty, but I do not go out of my way to contact any woman and I don't go out of my way to ask them out, it's all done casually.
Will women lose interest if you're too indifferent?