CanuckinSK
Don Juan
About twelve years ago, a friend introduced me to one of his wife's single friends. She was shy, very intelligent, great job (architect), and a very nice person. Only thing is, I had very little attraction to her, maybe 4-5 HB.
We went out on a few dates, and only shared a few innocent kisses, on the cheek. I knew she was REALLY attracted to me and wanted more than innocent kisses. I distanced myself and eventually just stopped going with her.
Fast-forward to last winter. I ran into her again and started going on a few dinner dates with her. I TRIED to develope an attraction to her, but it just wouldn't come. Again, more little kisses, but I wouldn't progress further.
After a couple of months, I stopped seeing her again. I'd like to remain friends with her, (I enjoy hanging around with her) but I don't want her to get the wrong idea. As she wanted me as more than a friend, is it possible to 'downgrade' her opinion of me to 'just a friend'?
Of course, it may be academic as she may not want to see me again after I appeared to flake on her twice now...
We went out on a few dates, and only shared a few innocent kisses, on the cheek. I knew she was REALLY attracted to me and wanted more than innocent kisses. I distanced myself and eventually just stopped going with her.
Fast-forward to last winter. I ran into her again and started going on a few dinner dates with her. I TRIED to develope an attraction to her, but it just wouldn't come. Again, more little kisses, but I wouldn't progress further.
After a couple of months, I stopped seeing her again. I'd like to remain friends with her, (I enjoy hanging around with her) but I don't want her to get the wrong idea. As she wanted me as more than a friend, is it possible to 'downgrade' her opinion of me to 'just a friend'?
Of course, it may be academic as she may not want to see me again after I appeared to flake on her twice now...