Can a man with limited sexual experience please a woman with lots?

[mr. kennedy]

My buddy slept with 1 chick (I believe they banged a few times) and is hooking up with a woman who has been with 20 different guys according to her friend. I told my buddy to avoid embarrassment and not go through with it. They have the same circle of friends.

Can a guy with such little sexual experience actually please such a woman?

 

[( . )( . )]

My buddy slept with 1 chick (I believe they banged a few times) and is hooking up with a woman who has been with 20 different guys according to her friend. I told my buddy to avoid embarrassment and not go through with it. They have the same circle of friends.

Can a guy with such little sexual experience actually please such a woman?

Probably not. She's a regular at the c@ck carousel which means she's seen some sh!t.

More importantly why would your friend want to "please" a slut? It's time mismanagement. Pump and dump only.

 

[Mike32ct]

It's not really about skill per se. Sex is very natural.

It's more a question of, "Would he be aggressive (ie rough) enough for her taste?" Probably not.

But it's a fling anyway, so just bang her and don't worry about it. Just wrap it up.

 

[Big Nuts]

Bang away and get the experience. He knows she's a pig, so there should be no pressure or oneitis down the road.

Get dirty...filthy dirty....finger her a$$hole, dump your goo in her mouth, 4 fingers up her clam, etc....

 

[VladPatton]

Tell him to 100% go through with it. Fake it till you make it, boyeee! Tell him to think he's a porn star that banged 3,000 women and really give her some big time Chewbacca, dirty, raw monkey sex.

 

[mr. kennedy]

The problem is (from what I could figure out) he sees her as a GF not a ONS. And apparently she's sick and tired of *******s and wants to settle down.

I can't see how this works. If he sucks, this could mentally scare him for a long time. I remember having a bad sexual experience and it took me a while to recover.

 

[Halcyonique]

YES THEY CAN.

There is no doubt in my mind about that. Why?

I am a female who has slept with 4 men in her life. Three of those were virgins. One of them was so gifted at fingering his ex that she argued with him because was convinced that he had previous experience. I believe him. He's a naturally sexually skilled man because he "listens to my responses" when he touches me.

A lot of men here will call bs and tell me he's been with 100+ girls. Whatever. Cool. But however sexually experienced or inexperienced you are, if you listen to her responses - when she moans, makes positive signs - do that **** MORE. If you do that, how could you even go wrong?

 

[Big Nuts]

She's been with 20+ guys, she's not GF material, she's a depository for goo. Lots of goo!

 

[Deep Dish]

Halcyonique:
One of them was so gifted at fingering his ex that she argued with him because was convinced that he had previous experience. I believe him. He's a naturally sexually skilled man because he "listens to my responses" when he touches me.

A lot of men here will call bs and tell me he's been with 100+ girls. Whatever. Cool.

Or he may have studied a lot of porn, particularly femme-centric erotica with bisexual “lesbians.” Forget the scripted stories, contrived lines, bad acting, lousy wardrobe department, porn can teach good technique.

 

[Halcyonique]

Or he may have studied a lot of porn, particularly femme-centric erotica with bisexual “lesbians.” Forget the scripted stories, contrived lines, bad acting, lousy wardrobe department, porn can teach good technique.

The potential downside with studying porn for your sex life, is that different technique suits different people, and what some people find pleasurable, others do not. You might hit jackpot with what you learn from porn, but just as well you might not.. It's riskier so it's generally the most reliable to go by the woman at hand, and go by her immediate reactions to what you're doing.

 

[Desdinova]

The potential downside with studying porn for your sex life, is that different technique suits different people, and what some people find pleasurable, others do not.

There's some things that are generally universal. Find me a woman who didn't enjoy a little bit of pain during sex. Find me a woman who doesn't like a man doing a good job at eating her pu55y. Find me a woman who doesn't enjoy basic sex.

Those are very basic things women generally like. Sticking things up her ass, tying her up, or fisting her are matters of taste. They're things that get added to sex to make it more interesting.

My mother pulled me out of sex ed class in high school. I learned what sex was from the porno tapes my cousin gave me when I was 15. I've never had any complaints.

 

[Halcyonique]

There's some things that are generally universal. Find me a woman who didn't enjoy a little bit of pain during sex. Find me a woman who doesn't like a man doing a good job at eating her pu55y. Find me a woman who doesn't enjoy basic sex.

Those are very basic things women generally like. Sticking things up her ass, tying her up, or fisting her are matters of taste. They're things that get added to sex to make it more interesting.

My mother pulled me out of sex ed class in high school. I learned what sex was from the porno tapes my cousin gave me when I was 15. I've never had any complaints.

Well the things you mentioned are subjective - some women do like pain, some women don't (and all the variables on the spectrum of pain would need to be taken into account there). "A good job" at eating ***** is also subjective depending on many things, such as the sensitivity of her *****: one mans roughness that turns girl #1 on, may be too rough for girl #2, which is why it's good to rely on her responses and take it from there.

 

[Fruitbat]

Find me a woman who doesn't like a man doing a good job at eating her pu55y.

I have had some chicks not into that. They are self concious about their pvssy and are embarrassed by it! I used to hate eating pvssy but I like it these days.


Find me a woman who doesn't enjoy basic sex.

True, that's the universal. Missionary sex or sex where there is **** stimulation, all women like this

Those are very basic things women generally like. Sticking things up her ass, tying her up, or fisting her are matters of taste. They're things that get added to sex to make it more interesting

Never seen the point it whacking a load of fingers up there, I don't want anything larger than my c0ck up there before I go in, otherwise it's kind of a let down - she is stretched further than my c0ck can, and I want that pvssy tight for when I go in there. 2 fingers is fine, I prefer one and let my c0ck do the rest of the opening up.

My mother pulled me out of sex ed class in high school. I learned what sex was from the porno tapes my cousin gave me when I was 15. I've never had any complaints.

Some more tips for the less sexually adventurous that work for me:

- Pin her hands above her head when doing her on top so she couldn't get away if she wanted to
- If you are as bad as me, do the above, get both of her hands pinned by your one hand and put a hand over her mouth
- talk dirty, all women like to hear about what you are doing. be dominant about it, i.e. she will do what you tell her to do, you own her pvssy etc
- Finger up bum is usually good. I wouldn't try anal sex on the first time, not all women are into having a whole d1ck up there
- Pull her hair back from behind
- Spanking can be fun!
- *** in her face, boobs, wherever you like
- Switch from pvssy to mouth frequently. Climb around her to put it where she should get it.
- Move positions often. Pick her up to do it, grab her by her hair to move her. Put her in your control.
- Most of all, try to last as long as possible, get her cumming. Some girls take longer than others, all of them generally take longer than I do!

The odd truth I realised after many years is the more you make it a bit like a sexual assault, i.e. your the boss, she is your willing slave and you will take what you want and be quite nasty about it, the more they dig it. All this romantic sex stuff is for chick lit.

I have found the only time to reign this back in is a ONS, I had one once say "you're too rough" and I had only known the chick for like 2 hours, so can understand it felt a bit like I was actually raping her!! lol

There are girls out there who don't dig sub/dom, but I am yet to find one. All women I have been with really dig the loss of control "he is an evil bastard who makes me do dirty stuff" (which she actually likes)

In fact, most womens take of sex is the hamster in it's truest form. They want all this stuff done to them but want you to make them do it, rather than them doing it.

 

[Neon Owl]

My first time was with a 42 yr old milf and she became my LTR...so yes as long as you put the effort in and don't hold back your mate will be fine.

 

[bigneil]

The OP told him not to go through with it? He shouldn't get experience because he doesn't have enough experience?

Also, 20 guys is (sad but true) normal if she is hot and age 20+.

Now, chances are she is hot and he isn't but that's beside the point. If she wants to he should.

 

[nismo-4]

Why the f**k would a man want to desexualize himself?

Damn.

 

[FairShake]

Can you eat pvssy? Last longer than 10-15 minutes? Hold yourself up in the push up position for a long time? Then you got a shot.

Any sexual person can be pleased. You just need the basics, some connection with her, and passion.

 

[Desdinova]

Well the things you mentioned are subjective - some women do like pain, some women don't

Every woman I've slept with has enjoyed some form of pain.

"A good job" at eating ***** is also subjective depending on many things, such as the sensitivity of her *****:

With the exception of one woman, every woman I've been with has enjoyed it when I feasted upon her pie.

one mans roughness that turns girl #1 on, may be too rough for girl #2, which is why it's good to rely on her responses and take it from there.

Agreed, but you have to start somewhere and find her limits. You can't just choke her and slap the 5hit out of her from the get-go. I'm saying that the minimal amounts of these activities are pleasing to nearly every woman.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Any man concerned about "pleasing" a woman sexually is already in full blown beta faggot territory. Sex is for the man. Women want love, control, commitment and kids.

Women overly concerned with a man's bedroom skills have usually seen more sausage then a deli anyway :crackup: :crackup:

There is no reason for a man to EVER worry about being "good in bed". The sex is for YOU not her. She should be pleasing you and you should be dominating her. End of story.

 

[jeffreylebowski]

Being good in the sack takes care of a lot of other problems when it comes to dating or relationships.

Listen to a woman talk about an ex boyfriend who didnt care if she got off, or pay attention to her body in bed after she's gotten some fantastic sex from a new guy. She will never sound happier. Obviously you want to be in control and uninhibited...but it's not beta to want her to get off.