seloifter
Senior Don Juan
This was once actually a reply to WUWD's post some long time ago, but I've decided to bring it back (deleting a few short parts that were specific to the post itself), and in its own topic..... cuz I believe it's something many HS DJ's should see
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C+F and neghits are the most misinterpreted concept in the DJ Bible. The reason is because they've been so exaggerated, and stretched, that they've lost their original meaning.
****y is when YOU KNOW you are great. You know what a great definition of ****y is? It's having so much confidence you don't have to assert it. It has **NOTHING** to do with self-absorbtion. It has **NOTHING** to do with always talking about yourself or how great you are. Confident people don't talk about how great they are. You know why? Because they don't care if other people think they're confident. By SAYING you are confident, you are instead declaring your insecurity.
Neghits are way overrated. Neghits can only be used with certain girls. Which girls?
The ones who get approached by so many guys, who have armies of men at their fingertips, ready to bend over at her every whim. These women who have their ego's so high they believe men were put on earth to supplicate their needs.
ONLY THESE women should have neghits used on them. Why? Because by neghitting THESE women, you declare that you are not one of her puppets, that you are not fooled by her alluring curves and well-made-up face.
It is VERY RARE for girls in HIGH SCHOOL to be like this -- it is generally for the older DJs who go clubbing. The reason is that most girls in high school have not been exposed to that much male supplication - few guys have approached them, and they do not yet know how to fully harness their power.
The reason Neghits are so advocated is because all guys WANT to attract THESE TYPES OF GIRLS -- which is why so many guys swear by it. However, these types of girls are not especially the best, so neghits are not especially the most valuable tool in your DJ kit.
So..... AS A RULE OF THUMB, NEGHITTING IS NOT FOR HIGH SCHOOLERS. It was never inteded for high school, it was intead originally meant for older DJs!
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Now, I have a few things to point out.
First off, do not confuse "what a girl likes" with "what guy a girl likes"....... simply because a girl "likes you more" now that you're not "overconfident" does not mean she'd rather sleep with you now than before. What "girls like" is a friend. Period.
Second, some girls just can't take jokes. There are girls that are so dense or insecure that jokes about them will trigger their ***** shield. I generally keep away from those chicks. On the other hand, you could just tone down the neghits, or, every time you make a joke and she stares at you, look right back at her and say "I'm joking."
However, for the most part, girls enjoy a bit of teasing. It creates sexual tension. Especially if you can determine that the teasing IS teasing, and not insulting. You do, in this case, have to be careful WHAT you tease ABOUT..... you do not want to hit a nerve.
Now, back to confidence (yes I'm jumping around, I have no logical stream of thought). I have found that the occasional joke where I talk myself up IS effective. However, it must have a few rules...... first, it must be, as I said, *occasional*.... second, people must understand that I have a great sense of humor and joke constantly...... third, it must be in good taste..... and fourth, they must also have a sense of humor
An example:
I beat her at a card game.
me: "it's not your fault, I'm just perfect" *with a grin*
her: "Oh shut up (laughing), let's play again
Do not overuse it, or it just becomes annoying and loses its effect. But use it sparingly, and it keeps its freshness, and teh effect remains. What is the effect? It's a little subliminal, but it CREATES IN HER MIND an image that you truly ARE as great as you say.
Humans are so sensitive to other people's opinions (especially girls). That's why advertisements are so effective. One person says a product is good, and suddenly another person who has never tried the product before says "it's good".... without even realizing why they think it's good!
Same thing. By telling a girl you're awesome, she will eventually get this image that you truly are, without remembering or understanding where the image comes from.
But, of course, as I said, it must be used sparingly, or it becomes a joke to her, and has no effect.
Aside from that, however, confidence must NOT BE SPOKEN. Confidence is an ATTITUDE. It's not SAYING "nothing I can't handle", it's actually taking the god damn challenge by the horns and saying "I can handle you, *****". This creates an aura, which girls detect.
AURA. GIRLS ARE SENSITIVE TO AURAS MORE THAN THEY ARE TO ANYTHING YOU CAN SAY ABOUT YOURSELF. When you are great and YOU KNOW IT, you don't have to say anything for the girl to understand it.
OK, I think I've strayed off ... so I'll jsut sum up my points (I think I had points...)
C+F and neghits are simply misunderstood
Neghits should only be used with specific types of girls, which are rare in high school.
****iness should be FELT rather than SPOKEN
Talking about yourself is just ****in stupid.
I rock
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C+F and neghits are the most misinterpreted concept in the DJ Bible. The reason is because they've been so exaggerated, and stretched, that they've lost their original meaning.
****y is when YOU KNOW you are great. You know what a great definition of ****y is? It's having so much confidence you don't have to assert it. It has **NOTHING** to do with self-absorbtion. It has **NOTHING** to do with always talking about yourself or how great you are. Confident people don't talk about how great they are. You know why? Because they don't care if other people think they're confident. By SAYING you are confident, you are instead declaring your insecurity.
Neghits are way overrated. Neghits can only be used with certain girls. Which girls?
The ones who get approached by so many guys, who have armies of men at their fingertips, ready to bend over at her every whim. These women who have their ego's so high they believe men were put on earth to supplicate their needs.
ONLY THESE women should have neghits used on them. Why? Because by neghitting THESE women, you declare that you are not one of her puppets, that you are not fooled by her alluring curves and well-made-up face.
It is VERY RARE for girls in HIGH SCHOOL to be like this -- it is generally for the older DJs who go clubbing. The reason is that most girls in high school have not been exposed to that much male supplication - few guys have approached them, and they do not yet know how to fully harness their power.
The reason Neghits are so advocated is because all guys WANT to attract THESE TYPES OF GIRLS -- which is why so many guys swear by it. However, these types of girls are not especially the best, so neghits are not especially the most valuable tool in your DJ kit.
So..... AS A RULE OF THUMB, NEGHITTING IS NOT FOR HIGH SCHOOLERS. It was never inteded for high school, it was intead originally meant for older DJs!
==
Now, I have a few things to point out.
First off, do not confuse "what a girl likes" with "what guy a girl likes"....... simply because a girl "likes you more" now that you're not "overconfident" does not mean she'd rather sleep with you now than before. What "girls like" is a friend. Period.
Second, some girls just can't take jokes. There are girls that are so dense or insecure that jokes about them will trigger their ***** shield. I generally keep away from those chicks. On the other hand, you could just tone down the neghits, or, every time you make a joke and she stares at you, look right back at her and say "I'm joking."
However, for the most part, girls enjoy a bit of teasing. It creates sexual tension. Especially if you can determine that the teasing IS teasing, and not insulting. You do, in this case, have to be careful WHAT you tease ABOUT..... you do not want to hit a nerve.
Now, back to confidence (yes I'm jumping around, I have no logical stream of thought). I have found that the occasional joke where I talk myself up IS effective. However, it must have a few rules...... first, it must be, as I said, *occasional*.... second, people must understand that I have a great sense of humor and joke constantly...... third, it must be in good taste..... and fourth, they must also have a sense of humor
An example:
I beat her at a card game.
me: "it's not your fault, I'm just perfect" *with a grin*
her: "Oh shut up (laughing), let's play again
Do not overuse it, or it just becomes annoying and loses its effect. But use it sparingly, and it keeps its freshness, and teh effect remains. What is the effect? It's a little subliminal, but it CREATES IN HER MIND an image that you truly ARE as great as you say.
Humans are so sensitive to other people's opinions (especially girls). That's why advertisements are so effective. One person says a product is good, and suddenly another person who has never tried the product before says "it's good".... without even realizing why they think it's good!
Same thing. By telling a girl you're awesome, she will eventually get this image that you truly are, without remembering or understanding where the image comes from.
But, of course, as I said, it must be used sparingly, or it becomes a joke to her, and has no effect.
Aside from that, however, confidence must NOT BE SPOKEN. Confidence is an ATTITUDE. It's not SAYING "nothing I can't handle", it's actually taking the god damn challenge by the horns and saying "I can handle you, *****". This creates an aura, which girls detect.
AURA. GIRLS ARE SENSITIVE TO AURAS MORE THAN THEY ARE TO ANYTHING YOU CAN SAY ABOUT YOURSELF. When you are great and YOU KNOW IT, you don't have to say anything for the girl to understand it.
OK, I think I've strayed off ... so I'll jsut sum up my points (I think I had points...)
C+F and neghits are simply misunderstood
Neghits should only be used with specific types of girls, which are rare in high school.
****iness should be FELT rather than SPOKEN
Talking about yourself is just ****in stupid.
I rock
