This just gets so severely annoying to the fact that I have to post to see what you guys think about my gf's mentality. She's so lame whenever we fight that all she does is get insanely passive aggressive and all quiet/moody.
We were going to cook breakfast and as I was going to do the bacon she told me to wash my hands. Okay fine, I turn the water on and wait for it to get warm(the water is freezing as it's cold down here plus washing hands in cold water makes me feel nasty, I'm not going to compromise my likes/dislikes for her annoying ass).
She asked me what I was doing so I told her I was waiting for it to get warm. Since we live together I pay her rent and so she said something like "You're going to start paying me for the water bill", implying that I'm making her bill go up by running the water for 15 seconds to get warm water. Lol, my response to her sh!tt!ness was that since I've been living with her, her power, gas, AND water bill have all been lower than they were when she was living alone(my mom liked to pull this **** too when I was living with her). "Is that seriously your logic?" she retorted.
I said of ****ing course it's my logic, you're trying to tell me that I need to pitch in for utilities since I obviously use enough of them to somehow make the price go up(I've seen her bills each month she's gotten them so I know what the truth is even if she doesn't want to see it). So then I go, "If you'd just stop being a pvssy and tell me you want my half of the utilities I'd gladly pay you. Hell, even the first month I tried offering my half for the lot of them and you refused. I'm not going to waste my energy trying to convince you when you know exactly what you have to do to get me to pay up".
Of course as I was saying these things I moved in on her physically(but didn't touch her) and got a little loud. I think she hates when I don't put up with her bull**** and don't let her walk all over me. She basically said "You're the *****", but nothing else, whatever that means lol. And now here we are, with her passive aggressiveness.
Thoughts?
We were going to cook breakfast and as I was going to do the bacon she told me to wash my hands. Okay fine, I turn the water on and wait for it to get warm(the water is freezing as it's cold down here plus washing hands in cold water makes me feel nasty, I'm not going to compromise my likes/dislikes for her annoying ass).
She asked me what I was doing so I told her I was waiting for it to get warm. Since we live together I pay her rent and so she said something like "You're going to start paying me for the water bill", implying that I'm making her bill go up by running the water for 15 seconds to get warm water. Lol, my response to her sh!tt!ness was that since I've been living with her, her power, gas, AND water bill have all been lower than they were when she was living alone(my mom liked to pull this **** too when I was living with her). "Is that seriously your logic?" she retorted.
I said of ****ing course it's my logic, you're trying to tell me that I need to pitch in for utilities since I obviously use enough of them to somehow make the price go up(I've seen her bills each month she's gotten them so I know what the truth is even if she doesn't want to see it). So then I go, "If you'd just stop being a pvssy and tell me you want my half of the utilities I'd gladly pay you. Hell, even the first month I tried offering my half for the lot of them and you refused. I'm not going to waste my energy trying to convince you when you know exactly what you have to do to get me to pay up".
Of course as I was saying these things I moved in on her physically(but didn't touch her) and got a little loud. I think she hates when I don't put up with her bull**** and don't let her walk all over me. She basically said "You're the *****", but nothing else, whatever that means lol. And now here we are, with her passive aggressiveness.
Thoughts?
