to be honest i think that alot of the guys on here are just 'keyboard don juans' they know the game inside out, and exactly what to do in all situations, and they will often say "that would never work" or "now that you've done that she's gone" or whatever..
but the fact is, a girl won't leave you if u are mixing 'don juan' and 'another ****ing chump' qualities. you don't have to play 100% by the 'don juan' rules to get the girl.
i think 90% of girls would stay with a 30%/70% dj/afc.. and there is prob 5% who would only be with AFC and another 5% only DJ..
but really, who knows?
i use this site as a reference and for help, i haven't read the bible, just parts, i don't understand everything, but i understand the ideals.
and what sosuave has done for me is;
Don't waste time sitting and watching tv or playing video games.
Do pursue your dreams, be involved in sports and social activities.
Do work out, eat properly, look after your body so that you look good.
Do have confidence that you are as good as anybody who walks the earth, or better.
Don't be scared to try new things.
and there is probably a few other things. but getting in there with that attitude will get you what u want.
if ur ultimate goal is HB 10's then you will need to work alot on ur look, for some that could mean cosmetic surgury, for all that'll mean looking after your body.
if ur ultimate goal is $$ then it definently means good work ethic, and probably the safest way of getting there is through college/university, meaning, work hard at.
my point is, if you work out what your ultimate goal is, don't sit there wasting time watching Friends, or playing Doom 3, start doing things that can help you acheive that goal, wether it be working out, or studying etc.
and most of all, good luck with it. and make sure you enjoy life.