http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155594
There you go.
Follow Metaphysical's guide to the letter and you should be back up to your nuts in her guts again in no time.
The main problem for most guys who come here is they find all sorts of reasons and rationalizations not to do the right thing for themselves in these situations to get what they want to happen.
Such guys scoff at learning psychology and learning to play power games and because of this they end up with their d!ck in their hand while another guy bangs away at their oneitis and abuses her every hole.
The lesson you guys need to learn is that which has value is often a scarce commodity.
Meaning if you are always available and wanting to "make things work" the woman will develop no anxiety over possibly losing you forever to another woman.
This sort of anxiety generated in women is what they commonly come to misinterpret as love and so without you making yourself scarce, without you interacting with women in such a way as they understand that they can lose you for bad undesireable behavior you then understandably get taken for granted.
You are in that case a commodity as plentiful as water or air.
So don't be water or air.
Be a fresh luxurious banquet in the middle of a famine ravaged war torn country as far as your dealings with women are concerned.
Then you will experience massive success and if you don't then hey you know without a shadow of a doubt that the woman would rather starve to death than feast on you which is also a positive as your being the scarce but valueable commodity in this instance weeds out the truly uninterested prospects.
The smart men out there, the men that know the score only want a woman with them that is genuinely on their team, a woman who is going to stick by them through good times and in bad.
The desperate AFC's on the other hand will bend over backwards for their lady love, let her spit in their face, go ride some other guy's c0ck and after all that has happened present her with either a wedding ring or a promise ring.
"but we're becomming more distant"
Even your subconscious language is AFC and self defeating.
"We're" becoming more distant.
No buddy.
SHE is becoming more distant.
You and a woman are never ONE you and a woman are always two seperate people whether you love eachother deeply, hate eachother or are only lukewarm towards eachother.
YOU want love and committment.
SHE wants to be smacked in the face by 12 other men's c0cks.
This is not a loyal woman whose really in love with you.
If you think about it deeply and got over your scarcity mentality and started valueing yourself and your own needs first you would then admit that you want a woman that loves and wants to be with you ONLY and this one is not it and never will be. Even if you win her back and get her riding your c0ck by using psychology she is still not really into YOU the person or else she would never of got the urge to go get the crap banged out of her by other guy's in the first place.
Women without constant love and loyalty for a man in a relationship are never to be kept around for repeat long term relationships.
Once they cross the line of wanting to see other people they are relegated to fvck buddy or fling status.
Smart men with their sh!t together never give these women another chance to become a LTR prospect or future wifey so keep that in mind if you want to be a strong man with his sh!t together.
If you want on the other hand to be a quasi DJ/AFC hybrid that continually makes excuses as to why he won't demand the absolute best for himself out of life however disregard this part of the advice.
Remember that...
"What you are looking for, is what is looking".
Which in other words means if you desire to have a disloyal slvt and try and make her into a housewife or LTR girlfriend you'll get the slvt but never the housewife or LTR girlfriend.
Its either or when it comes to these issues.
You cannot have your cake and eat it too in relationships.
A would be housewife is a housewife and a slvt is a slvt.
Go for the type that you want but do not ever think you can change someone into what you want them to be.
People can change but it has to be their own choice unmotivated by any external factors or pressures which means a partner's pestering for their partner to change into something else is only going to produce if anything a momentary result before the partner returns to what they always were and decided to be all along.
