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Body Language (Does she want you?)

Logan_Kale

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It's funny that a guy who post's "Body Language (Does she want you?)".

Is the same guy who posted about a week ago... "LOL its my fault i just never saw her as a root i always saw her as a cool chick that was like a guy friend."... said this about a chick who would CUDDLE UP with him in HER BED and watch DVD's together....yet, he never thought of her in that way... :crackup: Oh, golly gee, I guess she has a vagina...;)

Yeah, you're a real expert when it comes to girls giving signals...
 

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Originally posted by Logan_Kale
It's funny that a guy who post's "Body Language (Does she want you?)".

Is the same guy who posted about a week ago... "LOL its my fault i just never saw her as a root i always saw her as a cool chick that was like a guy friend."... said this about a chick who would CUDDLE UP with him in HER BED and watch DVD's together....yet, he never thought of her in that way... :crackup: Oh, golly gee, I guess she has a vagina...;)

Yeah, you're a real expert when it comes to girls giving signals...
I read her body language it was all saying friends and from time to time her body was saying sex. I don’t see what this has got to do with me not being able to read girls. I never saw her as a root my self meaning all I wanted was friendship from her. I never said that I wasn’t aware that from time to time when she was horny she was giving away sexual signals to me. I just never wanted to get into an intimate relationship with her because she seems too held back till I found the vibrators. So before you start making accusations try and understand what is being said.

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Feel free to add things people i also hae to add.

-When talking if shes leaning towards you it means she is intrested. (if shes leaning slightly back then shes not).

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Yeah, I have some GREAT THINGS to add:



When talking to a girl, these are some of the more important signs to watch for:

Can you keep conversation going with her?
Does she react well to kino?
Does she touch you?
Does she laugh?
Now I don't have to explain what the answer "yes" to these questions means, do I:)

From "Sweep women off their feet...": "All these signs usually tell you that the girl is captivated by your charms. But before you get there, chances are that her body language changes as the discussion progresses. Make sure that you watch her closely and as soon as you get a sign that should be an indication that you are on the right track, keep going in that direction. If the opposite happens, just change the subject and see what happens."

The really gorgeous and beautiful girls however very seldom get around to displaying the signs of interest described above. They simply don't have to, as they are used to getting some attention already long before that. With such girls you have to be on a lookout for the initial and thus much more subtle signs of interest. One example of this would be a gorgeous girl simply looking at your face. Obviously people tend to look at what or whom they like to look at. But whereas an average girl first just looks at your face and then progresses into the more overt signs of interest described above, looking at your face from time to time might be the only sign of interest you'll ever get from the most beautiful of girls.

So if you think you're not getting any signs of interest from beautiful girls - you are, but you just can't see them well enough yet.

Don Steele: "Here are signs of interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes. The sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence.



I'M INTERESTED
Sidelong glance(s)

Looks at you a few times

Holds your gaze briefly

Downcast eyes, then away

Posture changes to alert

Preens, adjusts hair, attire

Turns body toward you

Tilts head

Narrows eyes slightly

Smiles

Matches your posture

Eyes sparkle

Licks her lips

Thrusts breasts

DON'T BOTHER ME
Never sneaks a peek

Fleeting eye contact

Looks away quickly

Looks away, eyes level

Posture unchanged

Does no preening

Turns body away

Head remains vertical

Eyes remain normal

Neutral, polite face

Posture unchanged

Normal or dull eyes

Keeps mouth closed

Sags to de-emphasize breasts


In Summary. Frequency of eye contact, the more the better. Amount of time she, or he, holds your gaze, the longer the better. How she breaks off eye contact, down before away is great! Shine of the eyes, the brighter the better. Direction of body, toward you, good, away, bad. Overall posture, erect and alert are good. Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt is great. Where the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that's bad. Hand activity, clenched, squeezing or pinching is bad, open, caressing or stroking is great.

Most of us are slightly afraid as well as somewhat excited in settings where social interaction is expected and required. So, most people do not sit or stand in an open posture. But, during courtship, the more open the other person's posture is, the more open that person is to you and your advances. And, the more open you are, the more likely the other person is to open up to you. First Conversation Signals. Men, pay attention to all the ways she communicates during the first few minutes as you talk with her.

KEEP TALKING
Alert, energetic

Pupils dilated

Gradually opens posture

Lowers drink

Touches self gently

Caresses objects

Crosses and uncrosses legs

Flashes of palm

Crossed legs steady

Dangles shoe on toe

Hands never touch face

Touches you any reason

Feet firmly on floor

Loosens anything

Leans forward

Steady hands, feet

MOVE ON
Tense, restless

Normal or small pupils

Posture remains closed

Keeps drink high

Grips or pinches self

Squeezes, taps objects

Legs remain crossed

Back of hand gestures

Swings crossed legs

Keeps shoe on

Touches face

Never touches you

Feet on edges or toes

Tightens anything

Leans away

Tapping, drumming


In social settings, most of us start out in a closed, defensive posture because we're a bit apprehensive. A closed posture feels safe. When the person you are talking with shifts to a more open posture, it signifies trust and comfort. That person is, literally, opening up to you and what you have to offer.

It takes courage to open up to the other person. If you go first, she, or he, will usually follow your move from closed to slightly more open. Open up in, slow, gradual shifts of posture.

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But let's end the charade now, Black_Italian.
I didn't make up that post, and you did not make up your original post, either. You plagiarized it from this site:

http://fastseduction.com/guide/02_How_to_Get_Started/bodylanguage.shtml

- and claimed it as your own work without giving credit where it was due.

Bravo. Here is a true Don Juan, people. [/sarcasm] :rolleyes:
 

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I never claimed it was my own work and i didnt copy it off that site i copied it off a ebook i actuly typed it out and summarized it. I never said i wrote this out ect ect.

If i had claimed it was mine its one thing but i didnt i simply said its signs women give when there intrested.

So next time you want to accuse me of something make sure you know what your talking about.

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It is true that you never explicitly came out and claimed it as your own work, but that was my impression when i read the thread.

Even so, your content is remarkably close to the site that I linked and apparently the ebook that you read. Because of this great similarity, it would have been wise to cite where you got your info from. You didn't really 'summarize' it, you merely 'paraphrased' a few lines here and there.
 

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I also deleted some of the ones I dot agree with. The fact is I never claimed it to be my work I just said im tired of hearing all you guys ask dumb questions about body language so here are the signs a girl gives when she’s interested.

The next one il write on how to use body language to your advantage is completely my own work.

The book I got it from did not have a name of a person were I could say I got it from this guy ect ect. If you give me your email I will be happy to send the e-book to you to prove this fact.

Like I said next time you want to accuse people of plagiarism make sure you know the facts.

Ninja Out
 

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Debating semantics online is not worth my time.

I'll just leave this thread saying this:
Next time you DO post something that is remarkably similar to another piece of work, you should cite it or, if the author isn't known, just say that you got it from an ebookand that you edited some things which you didn't agree with.

It will reduce accusations by 100%, GUARANTEED.
 

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Originally posted by 22yearoldguy
More positive body language tips for newbies.

Her mouth

She puts your penis inside her mouth

Her vagina

Her vagina rubs against your penis or any other part your body

Her abdomen

Her abdomen comes into direct or indirect contact of your ejaculate
:crackup:
 

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Usually when a guy needs to analyze body language, he;s looking for some reason/excuse to convince himself that the girl HE is interested in likes him back. Ive been there....3-4 years ago in fact. i was a wreck...one-it-is up the waaazoo.

I was spending more time paying attention to 'body language' than to the obvious signals that she wasnt into me.

3-4 years later....older n wiser n whathaveyou. If a girl is into you...she'll be around you, starting up conversations, calling you. And you'll start to wonder why on earth we were being so observant about 'body language'. it ends up being more of a distraction than anything. Atleast in my case it was.
 

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In all honestly, that's too much crap to try to remember when talking to a woman.

I think pook said it best when he said "why put all this time in trying to get a woman, when you can put that time in yourself and get ALL the women?"

I mean, I can generally tell when a girl Doesn't like me, and I can tell when a girl wants me. If you have to take all of that time out to notice thoose signs, you don't look natural.

I was at a bar last night, and I ran into this girl I used to mess around with around a year ago. We ended on bad terms and I really didn't want to talk to her (it was my fault) because she had every reason to throw her drink at me.

So we she comes up to me and asks me how i am doing and all of that.

Now that I look back on it, I instiviely knew she not only wasn't mad, but wanted me b y how close she was standing towards me, how many times she was touching my arm, and by her pulling on me. However, at that time that was the last thing on my mind, I was trying to make my way to the dance floor.

When she caught up with me again and pulled me on the dance floor, I knew exactly what she really wanted, and because I already had built a rapport with her, I could be pretty blunt. So I grabbed her ass and told asked her where she lived now, and she told me to follow her home when we left. Case closed.


My opinion is, if you can't instivinly tell if a girl likes you or wants to talk to you, you need more experience. No one sign or a couple of signs tells you if a girl likes you. A girl I know has a habit of twirling her sandles, and if you were really looking for clues you would think she was interested in you, but it's just whats he does.

Body language is important, becuase it's around 70% of all lanaguage, but don't think that to get women you hav eto become a body lanague expert...

lol, instead of working on noticing if a girl likes you or not, doesn't it make more sense to improve yourself so that more women will have better reactions towards you?

Plus, body lanague is better when you are giving it out then when you are trying to comprehend it. Last night, the girl I ended up banging, I never TOLD her I wanted to ****, but me starring in her eyes, my lips on her neck, told her what I had in mind.
 
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