Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Long post warning.....but would appreiciate the advice.
Hi guys. Alot of you may have seen i aint been on here alot lately. Thats because i dont belive i can learn much more from Sosuave. I have no issues in pulling girls and have been helping people on here for along time however i needed a break.
I however return with an intresting one for you.
What do you do when your wingman......your best friend......your most trusted companion turns on you.
Over the past 2 weeks my wingman/Best mate has done 2 things that concern me. I dont know the best way to deal with it. So i am asking for some advice.
2 Weeks ago it started when a girl i approached successfully and manged to get the number of. My wing spoke to her the next night when i wasnt down and told her that im a player who only uses women to sleep with them (not true). He got backed up by someone else on this. I have since being trying to convince this girl i am an alright bloke.
I dont lie. I am a player.....however i dont **** women over like he said.
I spoke to him about this matter and i said i dont like it when he tells girls about my "reputation" esp when he makes it false.
However i ignored this time as i saw it as a mistake.
Tonight i went out with some friends (wing included) and there was a HB9 with our group. She was friends with one of the girls out with us. When i arrived my wing (To big a ***** to try with a girl. He is recovering AFC) told me the situation on her. Basically she had been ditched by her boyfriend and mates. They had gone to another club. He then suggested i should try and pull her. I told him i wasnt sure but we will see.
Later in the night im making moves on this girl. I find out she needed her boyfriend for her lift home and shes getting quite worried. I tell her to calm down. I offer her a lift home (something i am capable of as i was driving) and she accepts. She starts to be more happy. She is then offered a lift home but looks at me and says she will stay. Serious IOI
A few of my mates instantly think i want to sleep with her. (Naturally that CAN be the plan but i was going to play it and see where it goes). So the night carries on then all of a sudden i find out that another girl (UG4 who doesnt trust me because i turned her down a week or so back) is told of my plan to give her a lift BY MY WING and she slips her out and they grab a taxi. Idont know what they told her about me to ditch but im guessing its not good. I ask my wing where shes gone and he tells me they got a taxi. I said you didnt tell me on purpose did you? He said yeah because i thought you were in the wrong. (He has the morals of the pope.) Another guys gf is offbounds to him but he KNOWS my rules and he norm doesnt have a problem with them. It was a gf of a random guy which in my book is "fair game"
I left shortly after not happy.....
How should i deal with this....He IS my best mate and i cant lose him as a friend. Hes like a brother to me.....But at the same time. This cant continue. It seems like he is purposely sabataging my chances with girls.
ALL advice welcome on this one.....
Sarge On...
Hi guys. Alot of you may have seen i aint been on here alot lately. Thats because i dont belive i can learn much more from Sosuave. I have no issues in pulling girls and have been helping people on here for along time however i needed a break.
I however return with an intresting one for you.
What do you do when your wingman......your best friend......your most trusted companion turns on you.
Over the past 2 weeks my wingman/Best mate has done 2 things that concern me. I dont know the best way to deal with it. So i am asking for some advice.
2 Weeks ago it started when a girl i approached successfully and manged to get the number of. My wing spoke to her the next night when i wasnt down and told her that im a player who only uses women to sleep with them (not true). He got backed up by someone else on this. I have since being trying to convince this girl i am an alright bloke.
I dont lie. I am a player.....however i dont **** women over like he said.
I spoke to him about this matter and i said i dont like it when he tells girls about my "reputation" esp when he makes it false.
However i ignored this time as i saw it as a mistake.
Tonight i went out with some friends (wing included) and there was a HB9 with our group. She was friends with one of the girls out with us. When i arrived my wing (To big a ***** to try with a girl. He is recovering AFC) told me the situation on her. Basically she had been ditched by her boyfriend and mates. They had gone to another club. He then suggested i should try and pull her. I told him i wasnt sure but we will see.
Later in the night im making moves on this girl. I find out she needed her boyfriend for her lift home and shes getting quite worried. I tell her to calm down. I offer her a lift home (something i am capable of as i was driving) and she accepts. She starts to be more happy. She is then offered a lift home but looks at me and says she will stay. Serious IOI
A few of my mates instantly think i want to sleep with her. (Naturally that CAN be the plan but i was going to play it and see where it goes). So the night carries on then all of a sudden i find out that another girl (UG4 who doesnt trust me because i turned her down a week or so back) is told of my plan to give her a lift BY MY WING and she slips her out and they grab a taxi. Idont know what they told her about me to ditch but im guessing its not good. I ask my wing where shes gone and he tells me they got a taxi. I said you didnt tell me on purpose did you? He said yeah because i thought you were in the wrong. (He has the morals of the pope.) Another guys gf is offbounds to him but he KNOWS my rules and he norm doesnt have a problem with them. It was a gf of a random guy which in my book is "fair game"
I left shortly after not happy.....
How should i deal with this....He IS my best mate and i cant lose him as a friend. Hes like a brother to me.....But at the same time. This cant continue. It seems like he is purposely sabataging my chances with girls.
ALL advice welcome on this one.....
Sarge On...