Hey guys,
Just looking for opinions on how to deal with another female in my life.
She is pretty cool, but I'm looking for LTR material right now. I have FBs on the side, but as entertaining as it is, my ultimate goal for my life is a proper LTR.
So with that in mind, like I said, this girl is cool, and nice to look at, but she doesn't really do it for me anymore. I was pursuing her as an LTR, not a FB, and she just doesn't mesh with what I'm looking for. She isn't "fun", it's almost a drag to hang out with her, but the sex is good, and her body is perfection. So it's a bit of a trade off.
I'm bored and fed up with going through the motions to placate her and keep her happy (a bit of a high maintenance girl). She is taking me for granted, and I'm not one to put up with that. I'm wondering if I should do the whole "This isn't working, I'm looking for something more serious and someone who can move forward with me in life, so we are going to just have to be friends blah blah blah", OR instead if I should just back way the hell off and not say anything. Basically just disappear?
Anyways, if anyone has been in this situation, which worked out the best for you? Cheers.
Just looking for opinions on how to deal with another female in my life.
She is pretty cool, but I'm looking for LTR material right now. I have FBs on the side, but as entertaining as it is, my ultimate goal for my life is a proper LTR.
So with that in mind, like I said, this girl is cool, and nice to look at, but she doesn't really do it for me anymore. I was pursuing her as an LTR, not a FB, and she just doesn't mesh with what I'm looking for. She isn't "fun", it's almost a drag to hang out with her, but the sex is good, and her body is perfection. So it's a bit of a trade off.
I'm bored and fed up with going through the motions to placate her and keep her happy (a bit of a high maintenance girl). She is taking me for granted, and I'm not one to put up with that. I'm wondering if I should do the whole "This isn't working, I'm looking for something more serious and someone who can move forward with me in life, so we are going to just have to be friends blah blah blah", OR instead if I should just back way the hell off and not say anything. Basically just disappear?
Anyways, if anyone has been in this situation, which worked out the best for you? Cheers.