being her therapist?

[nosmirk]

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/therapist.htm

what are your thoughts on this article? personally, i would reject this totally but would like to hear your opinions

 

[bigneil]

NO - Rule #x Never be a girls therapist.

"If you solve a womans problems, you become their
problem."

(How to Succeed with Women, Louis and Copeland)

 

[Dayum itz jee]

im against it.. My thought is.. if you're a girls therapist you're her friend..

 

[Wzs99]

"Change her Mood not her Mind" - I forgot who

 

[Le Parisien]

"Change her Mood not her Mind"

This quote is gold!!!

Thanks!:flowers:

 

[Hitman10000]

Listen to the girl's rant but try to lighten the mood up asap.

 

[KillaCam]

"Modeling will identify you in her mind with her past lovers and at the same time give you the advantage over them by being seen as the hero for listening to her and giving her guidance.".

Since when do we want to be associated with her past relationships? I don't need some screw up guy from her past influencing the way I play my game. I'm a new person, and I am the future, not a reflection of her past.

Me thinks the original author tends to be stuck in the hollywood view of "The Knight in shining armour", as he rides along to take his mistress away from the jaws of the evil dragon. Or some pre-school crap like that.

Can anyone say emotional dependency?

 

[mrRuckus]

"If you solve a womans problems, you become their
problem."

(How to Succeed with Women, Louis and Copeland)

Yes i think that's the best. If she's distracted by other problems she won't complain about you or think of you as a problem. At least not as much. They have to have something to get worked up about or the world will end and it might as well not be you.