im 6'4 250 lbs with a deep voice. my biggest beef with making approaches is when i do it women seem intimidated and scared by me. they look at me like im gonna drag them into a dark corner and rape them. you can see how this makes me feel uneasy.
me:hey how ya doin
girl:*gulp* hi
i approached this girl recently twice. she kept acting all in a hurry and walking at an angle away from me. i mean she talked to me some, but i sensed her discomfort. all i did was start a harmless conversation about our class. this has happened many times to me.
so if they have already decided that im a creep, whats the point? i didnt do anything weak or beta to turn them off. i didnt do anything overly aggressive. it has to be intimidation. some times i actually wish i was an overage sized dude, then i wouldnt feel so scarey.
i know this sounds *****y and lame, but does anybody else have this problem? i know some people will argue the problem is my own thinnking, but is it really?
me:hey how ya doin
girl:*gulp* hi
i approached this girl recently twice. she kept acting all in a hurry and walking at an angle away from me. i mean she talked to me some, but i sensed her discomfort. all i did was start a harmless conversation about our class. this has happened many times to me.
so if they have already decided that im a creep, whats the point? i didnt do anything weak or beta to turn them off. i didnt do anything overly aggressive. it has to be intimidation. some times i actually wish i was an overage sized dude, then i wouldnt feel so scarey.
i know this sounds *****y and lame, but does anybody else have this problem? i know some people will argue the problem is my own thinnking, but is it really?