Being a 'better' person, etc

[Fruity]

Hey there. Theres gonna be two parts to this post.. The first one being:

We've all been asked by girls or hinted at asking what we do in our spare time..

This can be a little bit of a killer and leave you listing a few boring activities.. or it could be a prime time for you to say some ****y/funny stuff that helps you to be set aside from the normal AFC. You can even just insert this kinda stuff into your conversations.

Talk about your favourite subjects, books you have read (AFC fluff talk...=boredom)

What about writing a blog? Is that an attractive way to spend your time?

What do you guys say in these situations? I sometimes reply with a very masculine activity followed by a very feminine one... (the second being a joke)
For example:
Drinking games/Yoga
Boxing/Floristry
Playing fifa with the lads/ making home-made pesto

Secondly,

Making interesting conversation and being viewed as the AMOG around your male friends. This is especially aimed at college/school students, or those who attend sport classes and evening classes.
Personally, I have found tiredness/grumpyness etc really has a negative effect on my personality and things like responsibilty make me less fun to be around. I often dont talk and socialise JUST because I cant be bothered, or cant think of antythign funny to say. I also find it quite hard to find things funny around my piers. I might just be more mature, or im not trying hard enough?

People are usually joking around, and I can sense people get bored sitting next to me etc... wheres a year ago i was good fun and always the centre of the joke. (This was before I went through a prolonged period of anti-socalness, tiredness, and hardcore PC Gaming).

I know im doing most stuff right... hygiene, style, friendly, etc. But I seem to have lost my edge somewhat in making jokes - can over-working do that to you? :/

I think people I used to be friends with may have gone off me because of my lack of game with girls, which i intent to change. But thats harder when you're not being sociable with people your around all day, and having cool guys to go out with....

Ive actually started to think doing some naughty **** and getting into trouble can help me to be more playful, but its hard since theres pressure for exams etc. What do you think about this?

Besides sleeping more and putting more effort into socializing, does anyone have tips for being more fun for conversation and joking at school? I dont want to do it by gossip and vulgarness or even bullying people... That route is BOUND to fail if you get out of control with it.

Anyway, post out. Cheers for reading. Comment your thoughts!

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Hey there. Theres gonna be two parts to this post.. The first one being:

We've all been asked by girls or hinted at asking what we do in our spare time.. I think I might get this question sometimes. Atleast I used to.

This can be a little bit of a killer and leave you listing a few boring activities.. or it could be a prime time for you to say some ****y/funny stuff that helps you to be set aside from the normal AFC. You can even just insert this kinda stuff into your conversations.
We're not going to impress here, that leads nowhere.

Talk about your favourite subjects, books you have read (AFC fluff talk...=boredom) Talk about things that you actually have a passion about.

What about writing a blog? Is that an attractive way to spend your time?
Do you think I fvcking care?
If you think writing a blog will help you, and you think it's great fun; then YES. Don't do stuff because of what you think others might think. Do it for yourself.

What do you guys say in these situations? I sometimes reply with a very masculine activity followed by a very feminine one... (the second being a joke)
For example:
Drinking games/Yoga
Boxing/Floristry
Playing fifa with the lads/ making home-made pesto
That was kinda funny, agreed. As long as atleast the masculine one is true, so you can branch off onto something you actually care about.
Secondly,

Making interesting conversation and being viewed as the AMOG around your male friends. This is especially aimed at college/school students, or those who attend sport classes and evening classes.
Personally, I have found tiredness/grumpyness etc really has a negative effect on my personality and things like responsibilty make me less fun to be around. I often dont talk and socialise JUST because I cant be bothered, or cant think of antythign funny to say. I also find it quite hard to find things funny around my piers. I might just be more mature, or im not trying hard enough? It seems to me as you're just too uptight in social situations. You must learn to relax and be yourself in social situations. Turn off your filters.

People are usually joking around, and I can sense people get bored sitting next to me etc... wheres a year ago i was good fun and always the centre of the joke. (This was before I went through a prolonged period of anti-socalness, tiredness, and hardcore PC Gaming). Time to be socially proactive.

I know im doing most stuff right... hygiene, style, friendly, etc. But I seem to have lost my edge somewhat in making jokes - can over-working do that to you? :/ You're not attacking the problem itself. You gotta get more socially calibrated again. GO OUT, be socially proactive.

I think people I used to be friends with may have gone off me because of my lack of game with girls, which i intent to change. But thats harder when you're not being sociable with people your around all day, and having cool guys to go out with.... Still, change it. Fix your problem. BE social.

Ive actually started to think doing some naughty **** and getting into trouble can help me to be more playful, but its hard since theres pressure for exams etc. What do you think about this? If thats illegal; no.

Besides sleeping more and putting more effort into socializing, does anyone have tips for being more fun for conversation and joking at school? I dont want to do it by gossip and vulgarness or even bullying people... That route is BOUND to fail if you get out of control with it.
http://thepiratebay.org/torrent/4453839/Conquer_Your_Campus

Anyway, post out. Cheers for reading. Comment your thoughts!

Bold.

 

[I'm in the Mood]

This post disappointed me when I found out you weren't really concerned with becoming a better person.

Anyway, to answer the first part of your question, if your favorite subjects and books you've read sound boring or lame to the other person, then you're probably talking about them in a boring and uninteresting way. If a girl asks what you do in your spare time and you think what you do in your spare time is boring, then dude, you need to get some new hobbies.

Part two: you are totally over thinking all of this social stuff. Social success is about who you are, not what you can do. Once you've established a strong sense of who you are, and your personality, then you can work on trying out new behaviors and building on top of it.

Lose the criticality and judgment man, just go out, socialize, and have fun. Your goal is to be a fun guy. Listen to NorwegianDJ's advice about socializing more. Also, check out the link in his post to download an excellent book that discusses transforming yourself to become among the most popular men at your school.