Hey fellows,
Has anyone experienced this? While I can safely say I have rid myself of outcome dependence, I feel as if knowing the truth of how women view men has made me go too far in the other direction and have no real sense of intimacy. By this I mean, until/unless I bed a girl quickly, I tend to get bored pretty fast. As if, I subconsciously don't get anything out of romance or getting to know them and am just going through the motions. Truth be told, I kinda feel like if it wasn't for sex, dating would not be worth the effort ... and even when you get it, looking back most of the times it isn't. It's still better than playing with yourself.
Has anyone experienced this? While I can safely say I have rid myself of outcome dependence, I feel as if knowing the truth of how women view men has made me go too far in the other direction and have no real sense of intimacy. By this I mean, until/unless I bed a girl quickly, I tend to get bored pretty fast. As if, I subconsciously don't get anything out of romance or getting to know them and am just going through the motions. Truth be told, I kinda feel like if it wasn't for sex, dating would not be worth the effort ... and even when you get it, looking back most of the times it isn't. It's still better than playing with yourself.