I come across as a highly intellectual/geek type even tho I'm 6'3'', 220 pounds, and in a good shape. I wear glasses and have no dressing sense. I'm 31 years old. I usually can attract and score with intellectual & career driven girls of decent looks who are looking for long-term relationships. The problem is I started being into really hot clubbing type of chicks, with whom I don't have that much in common from any perspective... I approached a bunch of them and they seem responsive to me, but the regular chit-chat that works with intellectual chicks doesn't work with them... In fact, I think I don't have any s**t to talk to them about, but I also doubt anyone has. So, I figured out the only way to do these chicks is to become a highly sexual beings like they are so that opposite sex sees you just as a sexual object. So, how do we guys go about this? It's way more than just looks I guess. Also, what do you talk about with these girls? I need some topics and ways to stay away from what I do, where I live, and other personal things. Thanks.