syncmaster
Master Don Juan
Hey All;
I came across this by accident not too long ago in an attempt to start an LTR. I was chatting w/ this girl on the phone & on webcam and she made me blush. I can't remember exactly what she said but that wasn't the point. I was showing my "vulnerable" side. She LOVED it. She kept telling me afterwards that she thought I was a really cool guy and that it's really nice to meet someone who isn't all macho.
Alpha male-ism works extremley well to attract a girl, but you do have to put down your guard sometimes. This is similar to a grounding routine, but non-verbal.
I crashed lately (pua rollercoaster) and it was brought to my attention by a few female friends that I have the personality and the "aura" of a player. This has been extremley counter productive. I was even told by a girl I was dating that that had been her primary concern when going out with me. She didn't want to feel like "just another girl."
When I blushed I told her that it hardly ever happens (which is true). She was the one that got to me. She felt like she had the capability to bring out the softer side.S uddenly she no longer became "just another girl."
I went on a day 2 last night and it went extremley well. This girl was REALLY intelligent. I showed her a couple of magic tricks and she figured out both of them. She thought it was dorky and cute but even though the tricks failed, they had the same effect. I was just a normal guy under neath the cool alpha male exterior. We're going out again tomorrow.
Three days ago I was chatting to one of my friends pivots (the one who Orleans and I hung out w/ on St. Patty's) and we were talking about relationships. Personally, i'm tired of dating random girls and want something more commited. She said she felt the same way and the conversation just started flowing. I was "vulnerable" and no longer had that player mentality. We're going out on Sat.
Women find it extremley attractive that you have the option of almost any girl you want, but if you're looking to start something more serious then the odds of this happening with the PUA persona are about a million to one. Show a little vulnerability and show your "softer side." Make the girl feel as though she's getting to you and you'll progress along in the relationship alot faster then you could have ever imagined. Now she has no reason NOT to date you. You're attractive, smooth, popular and you can have any woman you want - but you choose her.
Cheers.
- Syncmaster
I came across this by accident not too long ago in an attempt to start an LTR. I was chatting w/ this girl on the phone & on webcam and she made me blush. I can't remember exactly what she said but that wasn't the point. I was showing my "vulnerable" side. She LOVED it. She kept telling me afterwards that she thought I was a really cool guy and that it's really nice to meet someone who isn't all macho.
Alpha male-ism works extremley well to attract a girl, but you do have to put down your guard sometimes. This is similar to a grounding routine, but non-verbal.
I crashed lately (pua rollercoaster) and it was brought to my attention by a few female friends that I have the personality and the "aura" of a player. This has been extremley counter productive. I was even told by a girl I was dating that that had been her primary concern when going out with me. She didn't want to feel like "just another girl."
When I blushed I told her that it hardly ever happens (which is true). She was the one that got to me. She felt like she had the capability to bring out the softer side.S uddenly she no longer became "just another girl."
I went on a day 2 last night and it went extremley well. This girl was REALLY intelligent. I showed her a couple of magic tricks and she figured out both of them. She thought it was dorky and cute but even though the tricks failed, they had the same effect. I was just a normal guy under neath the cool alpha male exterior. We're going out again tomorrow.
Three days ago I was chatting to one of my friends pivots (the one who Orleans and I hung out w/ on St. Patty's) and we were talking about relationships. Personally, i'm tired of dating random girls and want something more commited. She said she felt the same way and the conversation just started flowing. I was "vulnerable" and no longer had that player mentality. We're going out on Sat.
Women find it extremley attractive that you have the option of almost any girl you want, but if you're looking to start something more serious then the odds of this happening with the PUA persona are about a million to one. Show a little vulnerability and show your "softer side." Make the girl feel as though she's getting to you and you'll progress along in the relationship alot faster then you could have ever imagined. Now she has no reason NOT to date you. You're attractive, smooth, popular and you can have any woman you want - but you choose her.
Cheers.
- Syncmaster
