jancarlo000
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I've been realizing this so much, and I need help as well, so correct me if I'm wrong. I'm been and seen a lot - men who get a lot of attention from women, and also men who get a different attention.
A cool guy is one who is always funny, animated, in a way childish and immature sometimes - at least from what I have seen - he's unapologetic on his actions, and he always follows whatever he wants to do. he gets a lot of laugh, and attention from women... this guy is very energetic... very animated... very lively... he can be a leader, and can be fun, yet not really taken seriously as much as the "man." from what i've seen, this guy usually gets the girl who is not really that "feminine" in terms of affection, submissiveness, gentleness, and the girl usually has her own world... compare this with the "man"
a man from my experience and awareness, is someone who instead of a lot of animated energy, has presence... he doesn't speak as fast as the cool guy, but he has presence... he doesn't get as much general attention as the "cool guy," lets say in a group setting, but he is the one that the women want to marry. he is seen as someone more as mature, and dependable. he is often picked to be a leader, and the king. the girls that usually are after him are the ones who are quite opposite than what the "cool guy" gets - the girl usually is a "princess" - she is submissive, gentle, affectionate, secure, and looks up to the man...
i've been bouncing between both, and have been confused a lot... these are two distinct paths...
i know i need to be the "man" but i also want the attention...
it's SOOO bad you guys that i have been so incongruent that the women have lost respect to me, so what i am going to do is start over and pick my true values and principles and stick to them.
A cool guy is one who is always funny, animated, in a way childish and immature sometimes - at least from what I have seen - he's unapologetic on his actions, and he always follows whatever he wants to do. he gets a lot of laugh, and attention from women... this guy is very energetic... very animated... very lively... he can be a leader, and can be fun, yet not really taken seriously as much as the "man." from what i've seen, this guy usually gets the girl who is not really that "feminine" in terms of affection, submissiveness, gentleness, and the girl usually has her own world... compare this with the "man"
a man from my experience and awareness, is someone who instead of a lot of animated energy, has presence... he doesn't speak as fast as the cool guy, but he has presence... he doesn't get as much general attention as the "cool guy," lets say in a group setting, but he is the one that the women want to marry. he is seen as someone more as mature, and dependable. he is often picked to be a leader, and the king. the girls that usually are after him are the ones who are quite opposite than what the "cool guy" gets - the girl usually is a "princess" - she is submissive, gentle, affectionate, secure, and looks up to the man...
i've been bouncing between both, and have been confused a lot... these are two distinct paths...
i know i need to be the "man" but i also want the attention...
it's SOOO bad you guys that i have been so incongruent that the women have lost respect to me, so what i am going to do is start over and pick my true values and principles and stick to them.