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Don Juan
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What is the best way for me to maintain a C&F frame while also presenting myself as a reasonably successful young man? I want to present C&F but I also do have a lot of the "traditional" attractive traits going for me such as a good job, education, a nice place, a nice car, good salary, and so forth.
A lot of women, especially the young, educated professional types that I shoot for, do look for this sort of stuff (education, decent job, intellect, etc.), at least on some level, and I don't want to come across as a complete clown to them, but I don't want to be a boring schmo either. I've read articles and field reports where more professional and educated women blew guys out in set because of too much C&F for this reason. My most recent LTR wouldn't have likely given me or any other pure C&F guy the time of day, to give one example of this type. Then again, I know these women also blow out boring braggarts too.
Whats the best way to balance and still stay congruent? Would something like this fly well?
HBrandom: "What do you do?"
Hero: "Well, I am a (blank) by day... but my real passion is my stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That's my night job."
Would this earn points for both C&F and having a real career, in this case?
Thoughts?
A lot of women, especially the young, educated professional types that I shoot for, do look for this sort of stuff (education, decent job, intellect, etc.), at least on some level, and I don't want to come across as a complete clown to them, but I don't want to be a boring schmo either. I've read articles and field reports where more professional and educated women blew guys out in set because of too much C&F for this reason. My most recent LTR wouldn't have likely given me or any other pure C&F guy the time of day, to give one example of this type. Then again, I know these women also blow out boring braggarts too.
Whats the best way to balance and still stay congruent? Would something like this fly well?
HBrandom: "What do you do?"
Hero: "Well, I am a (blank) by day... but my real passion is my stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That's my night job."
Would this earn points for both C&F and having a real career, in this case?
Thoughts?