Great being a man
Don Juan
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First, a personal story. Many years ago I met a girl named Abby. She was lovely. I loved a 1000 things about her, mostly her face, like most of us do with a woman. We dated, went out several times, I was absolutely smitten.
I bought some concert tickets, and gave her a call to set up the date to go. The convo went something like this:
Abby: " Jason, I've been meaning to talk to you........I really like you, but I don't really think we have enough in common, and I don't think we should see each other again"
Me: " this is kinda sudden, I thought you liked me"
Abby: I do like you, you're a terrific guy, I just don't think it will work"
Me: " have you met someone else?" Abby: " no, I just don't think we have enough in common, and I think it would be better if we could just be friends"
Me: " fine, have it your way" I hung up.
Ok, I was rejected........no doubt has happened to many here, and I'm sure this sounds familiar. At first I was flabbergasted, then angry, then went through the usual self doubt crap...........If I had only done so and so.........
Rejection beats the hell out of us because we cant find anyone else to blame......it always comes back on ourselves.
Now, why this story? Because I learned the hard way, that women (even the ones who don't look all that great) have an incredible cruel streak. They will ditch a guy for no good reason, just because they feel like it.
So, what can we do? The answer is, we must become even crueler.......no, it doesn't mean that you treat a woman like dirt. But you must always, at all times, keep her wondering if you are on the verge of ditching her.
Newspapers know that feel good stories are boring...........bad news sells.
You must be bad news to a woman at all times...........keep her wondering, guessing, mystified. Don't return calls, or texts. Don't give gifts on sweetest day. Don't do her favors.
I love history. I would rather read about Josef Stalin than Mohandas Gandhi. Stalin was a total bastard, and more interesting.
You must be a Stalin in the world of romance........always be enigmatic, hard, impossible to figure out.
Become a bad news sells man..........because a good news man will get dumped every time
Best of luck
I bought some concert tickets, and gave her a call to set up the date to go. The convo went something like this:
Abby: " Jason, I've been meaning to talk to you........I really like you, but I don't really think we have enough in common, and I don't think we should see each other again"
Me: " this is kinda sudden, I thought you liked me"
Abby: I do like you, you're a terrific guy, I just don't think it will work"
Me: " have you met someone else?" Abby: " no, I just don't think we have enough in common, and I think it would be better if we could just be friends"
Me: " fine, have it your way" I hung up.
Ok, I was rejected........no doubt has happened to many here, and I'm sure this sounds familiar. At first I was flabbergasted, then angry, then went through the usual self doubt crap...........If I had only done so and so.........
Rejection beats the hell out of us because we cant find anyone else to blame......it always comes back on ourselves.
Now, why this story? Because I learned the hard way, that women (even the ones who don't look all that great) have an incredible cruel streak. They will ditch a guy for no good reason, just because they feel like it.
So, what can we do? The answer is, we must become even crueler.......no, it doesn't mean that you treat a woman like dirt. But you must always, at all times, keep her wondering if you are on the verge of ditching her.
Newspapers know that feel good stories are boring...........bad news sells.
You must be bad news to a woman at all times...........keep her wondering, guessing, mystified. Don't return calls, or texts. Don't give gifts on sweetest day. Don't do her favors.
I love history. I would rather read about Josef Stalin than Mohandas Gandhi. Stalin was a total bastard, and more interesting.
You must be a Stalin in the world of romance........always be enigmatic, hard, impossible to figure out.
Become a bad news sells man..........because a good news man will get dumped every time
Best of luck