ChaoticGamer
Don Juan
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Hello There !
I've been away for a long time, and even though some attitudes are now hard-wired in my brain, I tend to fail from time to time in things that I'd qualify as basics.
I just have one Question, but I need to describe the scenario first.
I was with a girl, who happens to have just recently confessed her love for me, We started dating, and I let emotions get in the way, probably a little too hard, I got romantic and stuff, and I think I ended up acting like a wimp, needy, etc.
Anyways, my particular question is about something that happened during a date, we were at a cafe, sitting in different chairs, they were large chairs and very uncomfortable with huge arm-resting-places (dunno how else to call them) and I was obviously constantly leaning towards her for a kiss, for a time it was OK, BUT
When I lift myself up to overcome the height of the arm-resting-thingy by placing one leg under my buttocks, SHE Freaked OUT !
Told me: "DON'T DO THAT !" (precisely when I was "over her"(or physically above-her))
To reiterate, I did it so that we could be more comfortable while trying to kiss, But it was even Obvious to me that it came as needy.
I wanted desperately to know what goes on in the mind of a girl when she reacts like this. It appeared to be a Huge Mistake
I'd like to have some feedback about this particular case. How should I act in a situation like that?
Have a nice Day!
CG
I've been away for a long time, and even though some attitudes are now hard-wired in my brain, I tend to fail from time to time in things that I'd qualify as basics.
I just have one Question, but I need to describe the scenario first.
I was with a girl, who happens to have just recently confessed her love for me, We started dating, and I let emotions get in the way, probably a little too hard, I got romantic and stuff, and I think I ended up acting like a wimp, needy, etc.
Anyways, my particular question is about something that happened during a date, we were at a cafe, sitting in different chairs, they were large chairs and very uncomfortable with huge arm-resting-places (dunno how else to call them) and I was obviously constantly leaning towards her for a kiss, for a time it was OK, BUT
When I lift myself up to overcome the height of the arm-resting-thingy by placing one leg under my buttocks, SHE Freaked OUT !
Told me: "DON'T DO THAT !" (precisely when I was "over her"(or physically above-her))
To reiterate, I did it so that we could be more comfortable while trying to kiss, But it was even Obvious to me that it came as needy.
I wanted desperately to know what goes on in the mind of a girl when she reacts like this. It appeared to be a Huge Mistake
I'd like to have some feedback about this particular case. How should I act in a situation like that?
Have a nice Day!
CG