awesome article on friendships

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Going through a fallout with an old schoolmate now. People change, do drugs, etc etc.
Friends are RARE. And do your life good and have people in it that are generally interested in you. Your life and your views.
Keep your enemies closer still.
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A true friend is someone you can truly count on when you need them and will always be there for u in ur time of need.

I hang out and socialise with my acquaintances often, but if i was in a car crash now and i called them.up to pick me up. They all would make excuses.

I know this because an incident like this happened before and not a singe person came to help me out.
 

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Close to a decade ago, I moved to my current city. In my first 3 months in the city, I met the guys who became my core group of friends. We were all living in adjacent apartments, we were mostly new to the city/transplants from elsewhere, and most of us were single. One guy moved here with his college girlfriend. We were all in our 20s. I was the oldest at 28, the rest were 22-24.

Now I'm 37, the other guys are all in their 30s. They are all married, except one guy with the same gf for the past 7 years. We no longer live in adjacent apartments. The guys who were single eventually got married. The guy who moved to this city with his gf eventually married that same gf and moved away. I'm currently single and unattached. Over the years, I've had the most unsettled romantic life.

The group that was very tight in 2011-13 is now disjointed.
 
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