At the end of the day..

[christz]

At the end of the day the choice isn't mine, or ours or any guys to make its the choice that the female makes.

yeah that's how i feel, and i think this is how i'm gonna stay, simply because the game is to heavy and after a while its like carrying a load of bricks. Yeah it comes off natural but when you lose ground, much like i have you have to amp up game to bring the female back your way.

honestly it works, yes. BUT the game is to heavy i feel like i'm walking into the social security office and i see all these lifeless faces "drones" you would say victims of a 9 digit number that means nothing to them.

Its the same with GAME, yeah sure its got perks because you get the girl but ya know what honestly, in the end its the girls choice to make up her own damn mind on who she likes or wants to be with over somebody she doesn't

careing about what she feels and contemplateing what moves or what new type of game to apply to get her, its a waste of effort, its a headache. I think i'll just act my normal sarcastic, funny self and if the girl don't like it or chooses another guy over me then whatever, that's her choice and i won't sweat it one bit anymore or figure out a way to game her back to my side of the feild.

hah, it may actually pretty funny with this new approch at the dateing game because if the girl tosses the jelousy card and brings up a guy, i'll ask her positive reinforcing questions about him, Like oh he must be a cool guy if you bring him up so much, what does he do for a living?

cuz honestly an approch like this, will take away the headache assoicated with "GAME" + it may actually show the girl you don't care and maybe that will make it that much easier to "GAME" her

 

[djbr]

Yes it is. But why are you doing it that way?

Put that huge binoculars you're wearing set to YOU dude!

You may want some special treatment from yourself

Leave it alone for some months. Focus on yourself for a change.

I'm doing this now and I've realized SO MANY THINGS that I can't even explain. It's great to take your power back!

 

[Lone_raider]

I think the most important thing I learned from this site is to develop a more active life of my own, build more confidence, and just "talk" to more girls about anything. Before I was doing nothing about the woman situation, I wouldn't even say a simple freaking hello or initiate eye contact!

After I broke down my barriers with that stuff, I never applied any "Game" because frankly I wasn't looking to bag 20 girls a month and I'm just not a player nor do I have that attitude. What did I do? I relaxed and just talked to these girls, I am funny, I always make my friends laugh, so I transferred that to girls when I started talking with them. I'm also well read, and well traveled and can talk about most anything, but again, I needed this site to kick me in the pants to get me initiating conversation with girls.

After that initial step, where I felt free to talk with anyone about anything, I began to relax with women and just acted the way I normally would. And you know what? That was better then any "game/player" mentality I could have fabricated for myself.

I just "am", I'm slightly aloof, funny and smart because that's the way I'm programmed, not because I learned it here. Unfortunatly, many years ago no girls knew this about me because I was afraid to talk to them lol.

So screw someone else's definition of game. My definition of game is that you arn't afraid to go up talk to girls, ask for their number or a date, or try new things with confidence, after that act like you normally act.

 

[christz]

belive me, it has been about me these past few weeks. I've lost ground with this girl and through some game and techniques i've brought her back in my direction. And then i take a load off and stop and she slips right back into a mode where she likes another guy.

I feel like its a never ending cycle not just with this girl but with ANY. Its not easy anymore and honestly the game is to heavy like i said its a sack of bricks that i don't wanna carry anymore, i'm packin up my toys and playing someplace else BY myself if i have to.

The girls gonna make choices, and if her choice steers me into friendship,relationship,whatevership then so be it i'm just done careing. I don't even have the energy to NEXT a girl, cuz what's the point? i've NEXTED her because she disrespected me, the only way to disrespect me is if i actually care that she does.

If i don't care then its impossible to disrespect me, impossible for me to get jelous, impossible for just about everything, THUS i win because i don't care. so why not just talk to her like i would talk to my boys, its all one in the same except there's a possiblity for a relationship outside friendship

there's a whole story behind this mentality i have taken up but i think this is best state of mind i've ever been in. NOT CAREING

 

[Lone_raider]

And to add more, if a girl want's to go I just let her go man. I don't fight, I don't game, I just say good bye and look for someone else. You can't force/trick anyone into staying with you if they truly don't want to. There is another girl out there who would stay with you, without putting you through tons of crap where you'd have to play her to keep her around.

I don't have the f'in time, nor do I care. Stay if you want to stay, leave if you want to leave, that's how I feel.

 

[Lone_raider]

there's a whole story behind this mentality i have taken up but i think this is best state of mind i've ever been in. NOT CAREING

Exactly, not caring was the greatest thing I ever did. Not only do I feel better, but women are also drawn to that for some reason. Probably because its the opposite of desperate lol.

 

[biggestplaya]

you shouldnt care if a girl don`t like you, theres plenty around 2 get a replacement,
just last nyt i asked a girl 2 tell me 1 gud thing and 1 bad thing about me jus as a game and i tell her a gud thing n 1 bad thing about her,
she replied gud..your fit...bad...u seem like such a player

i gave her **** and she then sed i meant that you could get any girl and that isnt always a gud thing, then i swiftley changed the topic to avoid any kinda converstaion in which she could of asked me if i liked her.

GIRLS ARE JUST A PART OF YOUR LIFE, DON`T LET THEM RULE YOUR MIND, it`l cause you to become a living failiure