For some reason women believe its ok to talk to me about their problems. I however don't give a **** about that unless they are putting out for me, most of the time I get up and walk away from the girl or just start random dialing with my phone to talk on the phone or go browse the Internet on my phone. What's a better way to assert yourself without being a ****?
Asserting boundaries with girls.
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You have become their personal male-b!tch.
You been friendzoned.
Exert more sexual threat, escalate - or else you become their male-b!tch on a leash.
Exodus
You been friendzoned.
Exert more sexual threat, escalate - or else you become their male-b!tch on a leash.
Exodus
Sounds like they're not interested, or have too much baggage. People with problems are always *****ing and being negative, because there's always problems on their mind. Avoid.
I suspect low interest if they're not reciprocating yours, however, or showing any signs themselves. They shouldn't just be complaining - unless they're not interested. Then it's just like dumping all that **** on any average stranger willing to listen. ESPECIALLY if you're flirting and showing interest, and they remain closed off, non-chalant, *****y, and complaining about everything... Like they would to a FRIEND.
I used to do this with girls I wasn't interested in, and vice versa. Usually *****ing about other women, or them with men. A girl that's interested will be happy, flirtacious, wanting to know you, looking into your eyes, complimenting you, etc, etc - regardless of her problems. She probably won't even bring them up - out of fear of turning you off, and so forth. Even if you're an easy-going listener. That just attracts them more, and adds to your good qualities. Or when being shy is "cute".
Don't waste time with low-interest girls.
I suspect low interest if they're not reciprocating yours, however, or showing any signs themselves. They shouldn't just be complaining - unless they're not interested. Then it's just like dumping all that **** on any average stranger willing to listen. ESPECIALLY if you're flirting and showing interest, and they remain closed off, non-chalant, *****y, and complaining about everything... Like they would to a FRIEND.
I used to do this with girls I wasn't interested in, and vice versa. Usually *****ing about other women, or them with men. A girl that's interested will be happy, flirtacious, wanting to know you, looking into your eyes, complimenting you, etc, etc - regardless of her problems. She probably won't even bring them up - out of fear of turning you off, and so forth. Even if you're an easy-going listener. That just attracts them more, and adds to your good qualities. Or when being shy is "cute".
Don't waste time with low-interest girls.
