Have you guys ever given a quick playful ass slap to a girl you haven't even kissed let alone banged?
I did last night, there was no blowback but I still feel stupid about it.
I was out with friends for my birthday, and one is this Colombian girl who's very flirtatious and kinos me (and others I might add). I haven't made a move on her in part because we're classmates in grad school and I see her every day, the shyt where you eat thing. Anyway, we all got a bit buzzed/drunk at a bar. She was her usual flirty/touchy self with me. At some point, and I can't remember what prompted it, I was behind her and gave her a quick light slap. I don't think anyone else saw. She turned around and laughed and said my name in a mock-disapproving tone, but she was smiling and that was the extent of her reaction as far as I remember, and things proceeded normally. When we parted ways everything was cool.
I don't drink like I used to so I don't get very drunk anymore, so when I do I often wake up with a feeling of "oh god what did I do/say." Am hoping I'm not in trouble for this but am not going to bring it up unnecessarily. It's something I'm accustomed to doing, even in public, with girls I've already banged so maybe my frame was running wild. Well, if it was unwanted I'm sure I'll hear about it.
**I should add that I'm typically a c0cky/funny/flirty guy, so it's not a congruence problem, not that that's an excuse.
I did last night, there was no blowback but I still feel stupid about it.
I was out with friends for my birthday, and one is this Colombian girl who's very flirtatious and kinos me (and others I might add). I haven't made a move on her in part because we're classmates in grad school and I see her every day, the shyt where you eat thing. Anyway, we all got a bit buzzed/drunk at a bar. She was her usual flirty/touchy self with me. At some point, and I can't remember what prompted it, I was behind her and gave her a quick light slap. I don't think anyone else saw. She turned around and laughed and said my name in a mock-disapproving tone, but she was smiling and that was the extent of her reaction as far as I remember, and things proceeded normally. When we parted ways everything was cool.
I don't drink like I used to so I don't get very drunk anymore, so when I do I often wake up with a feeling of "oh god what did I do/say." Am hoping I'm not in trouble for this but am not going to bring it up unnecessarily. It's something I'm accustomed to doing, even in public, with girls I've already banged so maybe my frame was running wild. Well, if it was unwanted I'm sure I'll hear about it.
**I should add that I'm typically a c0cky/funny/flirty guy, so it's not a congruence problem, not that that's an excuse.
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