OK: first off, major AFC warning.
I've always had a problem with eye contact. I just can't do it... I glance at someone's eyes and I freak out. Lately I've been trying to hold it with people... but I get all self-conscious and look away. It feels like if I hold EC with someone it's like hitting on them or being too intimate.
Now, I'm reading about this newly discovered form of autism the other day - "Asperger's Syndrome". Apparently one of the major symptoms is difficulty making eye contact. I did have some of the other ones, and it seems to me as if I may have a very mild degree of this thing.
Many of these symptoms are social in nature... in addition to avoiding eye contact, there is a general dislike of physical contact, inability to understand or detect other's emotions, and difficulty in understanding social signals.
Many people with Asperger's end up in technical jobs that require little social contact.
Has anyone else heard of this? Does anyone else with EC problems think this could be an issue?
I've always had a problem with eye contact. I just can't do it... I glance at someone's eyes and I freak out. Lately I've been trying to hold it with people... but I get all self-conscious and look away. It feels like if I hold EC with someone it's like hitting on them or being too intimate.
Now, I'm reading about this newly discovered form of autism the other day - "Asperger's Syndrome". Apparently one of the major symptoms is difficulty making eye contact. I did have some of the other ones, and it seems to me as if I may have a very mild degree of this thing.
Many of these symptoms are social in nature... in addition to avoiding eye contact, there is a general dislike of physical contact, inability to understand or detect other's emotions, and difficulty in understanding social signals.
Many people with Asperger's end up in technical jobs that require little social contact.
Has anyone else heard of this? Does anyone else with EC problems think this could be an issue?