"Are you stalking me?" WTF!

[insidious]

Don't utter another word to her other than the cursory hello if you cross her path. Stop going out of your way for her.

Are you stalking me?, it's just girltalk for leave me alone.
She knows you're not stalking her but that is feminine subtlety at play.

 

[Kal0051]

You are, as a player-in-the-making NOT supposed to "really like" some girl until you have had sex with her a few times.

BS... you can really like someone whenever you feel like it, you just shouldn't become too emotionally involved.

 

[scrouds]

Emotion is not right or wrong, it just is. What you do about it is paramount.

I tend to think a lot of these posts the person is already too late, and the best thing they can do is learn from next time.

Also, some of the C+F stuff, it seems to come off pretty harsh to me. Is that overdoing it or how C+F should be played out? Examples:

I only stalk pretty girls.
I thought trophy wives are hot.

We haven't even had sex yet and you're already talking about marriage? (OR) Fine, lets hitch a ride to Vegas after school.
Those seemed to be I guess less abrasive. Is that good or bad?