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I-am-someone

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There's only one thing that truly attracts girls: Confidence.

Most of you guys don't really realise this, but the human face has a LOT of little muscles in it. Each of these little muscles has been trained to a certain extent and basically decide the way a person looks.
Let's take a look at Brad Pitt.
Whenever you say a picture of him, his entire face looks confident and capable of doing anything. The muscles in his face have been trained to look like that, because he feels like that all the time.
Now try imagining Brad Pitt walking around with his cheecks hanging down, his lips hanging loose, in other words, like a loser.
Which one is going to get chicks flocking to him? The real Brad Pitt.

I've been examining this for a while, and I have come to the conclusion that any person you meet on the street can become super-hot. Really. It may take a few years work, but if you're relatively normal, you CAN be. Just think about it, you'll know I'm right.

The problem is, you also need to feel very confident. If you're worrying about your looks, you won't feel confident, and won't come across naturally. So, basically this sends off the message:

Stop worrying about your looks and start working on your confidence from within!
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by I-am-someone
There's only one thing that truly attracts girls: Confidence.

Most of you guys don't really realise this, but the human face has a LOT of little muscles in it. Each of these little muscles has been trained to a certain extent and basically decide the way a person looks.
Let's take a look at Brad Pitt.
Whenever you say a picture of him, his entire face looks confident and capable of doing anything. The muscles in his face have been trained to look like that, because he feels like that all the time.
Now try imagining Brad Pitt walking around with his cheecks hanging down, his lips hanging loose, in other words, like a loser.
Which one is going to get chicks flocking to him? The real Brad Pitt.

I've been examining this for a while, and I have come to the conclusion that any person you meet on the street can become super-hot. Really. It may take a few years work, but if you're relatively normal, you CAN be. Just think about it, you'll know I'm right.

The problem is, you also need to feel very confident. If you're worrying about your looks, you won't feel confident, and won't come across naturally. So, basically this sends off the message:

Stop worrying about your looks and start working on your confidence from within!
LOL, true to some extent. But not all-together. There is also the very important thing called, Genetics, of which determines your bone structure and features. Your muscles in your face cannot change this no matter what.

But yes, if you are decent looknig, you can look a LOT better by putting a lot of effort into your skin, hairstyle, body, clothing! The 4 most important thing when it comes to looks!
 

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Do I consider myself good looking? Yes

Have I been told that I am good looking? Not as much I'd like to but, again yes.

Do I care wether or not people perceive me as good looking? Not really.

At this point in time I really couldnt care less as to my looks. I do whatever I can to improve my outer self, but its my inner self that I put my main focus on improving. You see, lately I have been trying to permanently evict my inner wussiness, and once I do that my outer attractiveness will jump by a lot.


But as a reference point, people have said that I look like a younger version of Gary Busey, for those that know who he is
 

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YES

I am THE MOST attractive man for yards around.

Man, I have age creases now fromyears of sun abuse. Some chicks may not like it, I dont know but a few chicks love it...they call them character lines hahaha. Cracks me up. Nothing a botox shot wouldn't fix, a little shot of botulism to make my creases, wrinkles, character and feeling go away.

Women are attracted to looks, but really, you get them upstairs, in their head, that is where they reside.
 

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I have those very features that make a guy goodlooking.great jawline ,large eyes, nice full lips ,dark skin ,model features so i know im goodlooking because girls give me stares and flirt with me and some of them are intimidated by me,but i think i look wierd not in a bad way but in a good way because im multi racial i have a unique goodlooks.I have european ,far east asian,indian and african blood in me sometimes i look white sometimes i look hispanic so i attract tons of girls especially white women and hispanics cause i live in the suburbs of miami south florida one of the shallowest citys,and theres tons of goodlooking people here so i must be special because it seems the girls pay more atention to me.
 

david90

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man u guys are lucky. I have never been told that i'm hot or even cute. Only my mom tells me that i'm cute:( . I feel really bad for guys with 7,8,9 in looks but are AFCs.
 

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i look like a mix between eminem and the rock, i always notice *****s staring at me, and those are the ones i always end up f^cking. I used to always pass up on the starers, but after i started always talking to the sexy starers I found out that many had been wanting my body for a really long time. I was pleasantly surprised. My days of being a sexy afc are over.
 

Casino

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think about it though.

you've got to get your weight game straight in order to become attractive. if you are fat or to thin women won't be as attracted to you.

the only attrative fat girl i've ever seen worked as a waitress at circus circus. she had nice caramel colored skin, pouty lips and a pretty face that was just begging me to make it my personal *** dumpster.
 

A7Xx

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Yea I am kinda thin, im 6 ft 1, but if i ever tried to be gigantic and muscular it would look weird and id be ugly, so I just tone my muscle up and stay fit, and gain some mass in my arms.
 

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Originally posted by A7Xx
Yea I am kinda thin, im 6 ft 1, but if i ever tried to be gigantic and muscular it would look weird and id be ugly, so I just tone my muscle up and stay fit, and gain some mass in my arms.
Yeah man being too skinny is definitely a turn off for girls. Especially if your tall. Oh, and if your going to gain mass in your arms, gain everywhere else or youll look out of proportion.
 

Don_Joffe

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Zairi: Where are you from? You got some fine girls in that group of people...
 

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I've said it before and I'll say it again -- looks are only ONE aspect of your sucess with women. Do not use your perceived lack of them as an excuse not to take action.

I've been scouted by a modelling agency (was rejected for being too tall -- or maybe they just didn't want to tell me the truth and hurt my feelings :D ). And I had sex for the first time at age 21, last year. Before that I could have taken anyone here on in AFCness and won.

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Jay-X

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Originally posted by alboh
I've said it before and I'll say it again -- looks are only ONE aspect of your sucess with women. Do not use your perceived lack of them as an excuse not to take action.

I've been scouted by a modelling agency (was rejected for being too tall -- or maybe they just didn't want to tell me the truth and hurt my feelings :D ). And I had sex for the first time at age 21, last year. Before that I could have taken anyone here on in AFCness and won.

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u r quite cute, but u look really afc, sorry;)
 
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