Anyone ever go limp during the act

[TheBaconator]

Never happened to me before until last night. Very odd for me, was rock hard during a nice m/o session, when she blew me and then when she hopped on top for a while and then all of a sudden limp Willie and wasn't getting back up for anything.

I think part of it was I lost some attraction once she was naked as the body wasn't as good as i've hoped, but i've been with uglier chicks and never had a problem. Also part of it was she just had a kid a couple months ago. Good news is she didn't mind and still wants it again, so the pressure will be really on.

I like this girl, she came over and cooked and cleaned, massaged and pretty much catored to me needs lol, never had a girl go above and beyond like that, so I definetly wanna keep her around at least as a FWB. I don't wanna hurt her feelins though if I can't get it up again or go limp, I was thinkin of poppin a V but probably won't out of fear, any good tips on afrodesiacks I can take so I won't have to worry about this next time?

 

[DonGorgon]

Yeh it happens to the best of us... usually due to anxiety , fatigue, stress, poor diet, lack or loss of attraction lack of sensation.. Dont worry about it cause the more you do the worse it will get..

 

[decades]

it happens...

 

[TheBaconator]

Well then I guess what i'm looking for moreso is advice for what to do if it happens again. How to possibly play it off so she doesn't think i'm not attracted to her or that i've got ED. I definetly wanna keep this girl around as a FWB but I think she would probably think I don't like her or something if I can't go next time. It was kinda ackward when I went limp this time, so I can only imagine how it would be if it happens again.

 

[Xtasy9800]

OK, this happened to me a few times... its usually either because you are thinking of something else, not really attracted to her, or you arent really in the mood because you jerked off or something too soon before you saw her.
If it happens pretend shes someone else... dont take a v its too risky. just pretend shes like jenna jameson or something. If that doesnt work, really just concentrate on what you are doing. SEE her boobs bouncing. SEE her pussv getting pounded and really focus on it.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

You probably went limp cause you realized it was a girl you didn't wanna fvck in the first place. Sometimes the little head tells the big head what to do. But, the big head realized the little head was wrong.

 

[itishe]

It's anxiety. Sometimes I think of past times where I lost an erection and it causes me to lose one during the act. I like to watch porn before I hang out with my girlfriend and get really horned up to gaurantee it don't go down.

 

[Dagwood]

Baconator maybe you´re gay? Then come to terms with it.

 

[JahGlory]

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went limp:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

maybe its time to quit the :cheer: and focus on the :kick:

 

[Chipleader]

Alpha males dont go limp. Neither should you. Whatever the cause (anxiety, booze, the fact your gay etc) get it handled.

 

[Alphamale1821]

hey man happens to the best of us, doesn't make you any less of a man. Most men don't even get the chance to see a women naked, so your doing good. As for an aphrodisiac i know of a couple. Cloves and Garlic are two Natural aphrodisiacs and it doesn't take much since they are both very powerful herbs. Along with a list of other attributes.
None the less don't sweat it when you see her just play it cool, like it's no big deal. If you wanna bang next time just do what you do and blow her away.

 

[TheBaconator]

You probably went limp cause you realized it was a girl you didn't wanna fvck in the first place. Sometimes the little head tells the big head what to do. But, the big head realized the little head was wrong.

That's what i'm thinking here, because i've never had this problem, and got some other ass about a week n a half ago. But I still wanna keep this girl around because like I said she's very accomidating, willing to drive to me , cook for me and ****.

Also, she's a couple months removed from having a child so I know she has potential to pick up that body. If it happens again i'll just try thinking of hotter girls I banged.

Thanks for the serious replies.

 

[JahGlory]

they were all serious boyo

you are 100% in control of yourself at all atimes, at least you can be (i cant speak for your level of maturity)

it really speaks to your character that you let this happen

 

[TheBaconator]

they were all serious boyo

you are 100% in control of yourself at all atimes, at least you can be (i cant speak for your level of maturity)

it really speaks to your character that you let this happen

Not to be a **** but have you even got laid? I know myself and I know I love women. I've been with quite a few and like I said this is the first time this has happened. I didn't come post here to have my sexuality questioned, I posted for tips and advice about this problem.

 

[JahGlory]

its a shame that youre too busy being caught up in how what ive said has hurt your ego to look at it for what it is

its not even like thats all i have to say but i think anything more will be a w

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Buy a c0ckring, or try some herbals, like passion rx or yohome or tribulus. A c0ckring will keep it up for 20 minutes longer.

This is something I'm studying myself.

This happens to me virtually all the time in the past when it was 'legal' (in my mind) to use the Fleshlight. If and when it becomes a 'legal' entity again, I intend to try out a c0ck ring to see if that helps hold the erection where it goes limp, or try herbal products such as trimbus or yohombe, or some passion f(x) stuff that they are selling out there to see if that works. I've done a probe and lots of other guys have this problem and sometimes it just sucks.



I'd be the least qualified to give you advice on here since I'm a virgin, but from the other posts I've seen, I figured, why not.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

That's what i'm thinking here, because i've never had this problem, and got some other ass about a week n a half ago. But I still wanna keep this girl around because like I said she's very accomidating, willing to drive to me , cook for me and ****.

Also, she's a couple months removed from having a child so I know she has potential to pick up that body. If it happens again i'll just try thinking of hotter girls I banged.

Thanks for the serious replies.

You like what she does for you. But, that is all. I think you have no physicall attraction for her. Why else if this is the first time it happend. You even mentioned you didn't like her body.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Buy a c0ckring, or try some herbals, like passion rx or yohome or tribulus. A c0ckring will keep it up for 20 minutes longer.

This is something I'm studying myself.

This happens to me virtually all the time in the past when it was 'legal' (in my mind) to use the Fleshlight. If and when it becomes a 'legal' entity again, I intend to try out a c0ck ring to see if that helps hold the erection where it goes limp, or try herbal products such as trimbus or yohombe, or some passion f(x) stuff that they are selling out there to see if that works. I've done a probe and lots of other guys have this problem and sometimes it just sucks.



I'd be the least qualified to give you advice on here since I'm a virgin, but from the other posts I've seen, I figured, why not.

Be careful with Yohimbe. The kind that is standardized for Yohimbine works, but it's some dangerous stuff. Read up on it before you put it in your body.

Tribulus is a good option for your overall libido and well-being, but it's not really an erection pill.

If you're looking for something in pill form, AAKG (a form of arginine) is probably your best bet. It increases blood flow to the penis and can make your wood a lot firmer. You can buy it at GNC or even Wal-Mart.