I had been dating this girl for 3 months. She knows Mondays are our usual date nights, even though we didn't specifically have plans to go out last Monday. I text her 3-4 times throughout the day, leave a couple voice mails but no response all day long.
Sitting in a bar watching NY-DET game playing on my phone, I notice she logs into Facebook. Now I am peeved, if you have time to check Facebook, you gosh darn better be able to answer my messages.
The bar is close to her neighborhood, so I decide between games to cruise through her hood to see wtf is going on with her. I catch her getting out of her car in front of a house party.
I approach her and ask wtf is going on, she says she just lost her job and is distraught, doesn't feel like going out just wants to party a little bit with her friends.
I lay into her about how so incredibly rude it is to ignore me all day even though you can find the time to check your Facebook. Now we are in the front lawn of the house party and we are arguing in front of some of the party goers.
We leave each other fairly amicably she says she just wants to go back to the party and I say sure I will just go back to the bar and get drunk by myself. I say can I call you tomorrow, she says "maybe."
Next morning she blows up my phone with about a million text messages, says she never wants to see me again, never call or text her again. Calls me a creepy lunatic weirdo stalker.
We get into like a 90 minute textathon, I am begging and pleading her to reconsider, saying it was her lack of communication that caused this. She says she was super embarrassed because her friends saw us arguing on the front lawn and they made fun of her all night long because of it and she was already really distraught over losing her job.
At one point I ask her to please take me back and she says this, "negative, there is far too much turmoil going rite now for me, I cant have u in either rite now." So that gave me a little bit of hope, but then she goes right back to calling me a lunatic/weirdo/stalker.
I texted her again Tuesday night, saying I wanted to talk to her by her car and not on the front lawn of the house party, she was the one that ran over to the house. I say I didn't intend to embarrass her I just wanted to know what was up. This was met by more angry caps lock and name calling unfortunately.
Now I am on day 3 of no contact, what chance do you guys think I have of salvaging this? How should I handle it from here on out?
Sitting in a bar watching NY-DET game playing on my phone, I notice she logs into Facebook. Now I am peeved, if you have time to check Facebook, you gosh darn better be able to answer my messages.
The bar is close to her neighborhood, so I decide between games to cruise through her hood to see wtf is going on with her. I catch her getting out of her car in front of a house party.
I approach her and ask wtf is going on, she says she just lost her job and is distraught, doesn't feel like going out just wants to party a little bit with her friends.
I lay into her about how so incredibly rude it is to ignore me all day even though you can find the time to check your Facebook. Now we are in the front lawn of the house party and we are arguing in front of some of the party goers.
We leave each other fairly amicably she says she just wants to go back to the party and I say sure I will just go back to the bar and get drunk by myself. I say can I call you tomorrow, she says "maybe."
Next morning she blows up my phone with about a million text messages, says she never wants to see me again, never call or text her again. Calls me a creepy lunatic weirdo stalker.
We get into like a 90 minute textathon, I am begging and pleading her to reconsider, saying it was her lack of communication that caused this. She says she was super embarrassed because her friends saw us arguing on the front lawn and they made fun of her all night long because of it and she was already really distraught over losing her job.
At one point I ask her to please take me back and she says this, "negative, there is far too much turmoil going rite now for me, I cant have u in either rite now." So that gave me a little bit of hope, but then she goes right back to calling me a lunatic/weirdo/stalker.
I texted her again Tuesday night, saying I wanted to talk to her by her car and not on the front lawn of the house party, she was the one that ran over to the house. I say I didn't intend to embarrass her I just wanted to know what was up. This was met by more angry caps lock and name calling unfortunately.
Now I am on day 3 of no contact, what chance do you guys think I have of salvaging this? How should I handle it from here on out?