A few days ago, I ended a 3 year relationship. She was my first.
I've been having a hard time sleeping, have been feeling uneasy, very tired (emotionally and physically) and anxious/nervous.
I asked a female acquaintance of mine out for coffee next Monday through facebook. I know...I should have gotten her number first. Anyways, her reply seemed enthusiastic and she asked for my phone number, saying she would call me and let me know about Monday.
1. What do you guys make of this sort of response? I think I should give her my number and ask her for hers so that I may confirm or change the date. The ball shouldn't be in her court.
2. I'm thinking it was a mistake to ask a girl out so soon. I'm still not 100 % back to being myself and I perhaps need more time to recover. I'm thinking of postponing the date for a week.
She's exactly what I look for in a girl, so I don't want to mess this up. That's pretty much why I'm feeling so much anxiety and pressure over this. I want to feel and be at my best, and right now I don't quite feel that way. I need a short transition period of being single. My intention never was to jump from one relationship to another, timing just gave me an opportunity I wasn't expecting.
What's your advice?
I've been having a hard time sleeping, have been feeling uneasy, very tired (emotionally and physically) and anxious/nervous.
I asked a female acquaintance of mine out for coffee next Monday through facebook. I know...I should have gotten her number first. Anyways, her reply seemed enthusiastic and she asked for my phone number, saying she would call me and let me know about Monday.
1. What do you guys make of this sort of response? I think I should give her my number and ask her for hers so that I may confirm or change the date. The ball shouldn't be in her court.
2. I'm thinking it was a mistake to ask a girl out so soon. I'm still not 100 % back to being myself and I perhaps need more time to recover. I'm thinking of postponing the date for a week.
She's exactly what I look for in a girl, so I don't want to mess this up. That's pretty much why I'm feeling so much anxiety and pressure over this. I want to feel and be at my best, and right now I don't quite feel that way. I need a short transition period of being single. My intention never was to jump from one relationship to another, timing just gave me an opportunity I wasn't expecting.
What's your advice?
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