Another Situation for the Masters

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

I am a high school student in a weird situation.

Last year i changed school systems. THe old school system, i was a AFC, and the same in the new one. I am returning to the old one this year, and i want to show that i have changed this summer. I have seen the light, if thats the way you want to put it.

How would i show my changed qualities? I kno that they should be self appearent, but i wnat to make sure some people i knew notice them. I am interested in makin a romantic relationship wit a certain girl who had me wrapped around her finger the last time i knew her.

HELP ME DO THIS!

 

[Starman]

How do you dress? Maybe Dress better
look people in the eye
walk confidently
Hang out with more women so other women see this
Join Sports/workout

this is really hard to answer becase we dont know how you were before and how you are now

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

my best friend is a complete DJ

could hanging with him help my DJ? or would girls just see him and ignore him. Its a tricky issue

 

[iqqi]

If you have truly changed, they will know. Why would they not?

Actions speak louder than words. You cannot simply say "I HAVE CHANGED. TREAT ME DIFFERENT."

You most show them. Which should be natural, if indeed you are different.

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

yeah i see what you are saying

thanks for the advice, anything else i shouild kno?

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

this is really hard to answer becase we dont know how you were before and how you are now

I was thinking the same thing.

Comfort Zone comes to mind.

Step out of it. Do things that you'd never dare to do, as the OLD AFC you.

Now, here's another thing.


You were an AFC there.....you moved, STILL AFC....now you're going back?....Who do you wanna fool? Them, or Yourself?

Think hard, on that.

Trying to fool anyone, especially yourself won't work. You need to make the real changes that will really show everyone that you've changed. You can't just put on an act, because it will eventually fade back into the old you.

You also can't be too "out there" because then, real or not, It'll be way too fake and forced.

Chill.

Let 'em see the new you a bite at a time, considering you've changed at all...????

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[Starman]

yea you should also know that "know" is not spelled "kno"

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

haha dont pull the dictionary on me, cuz if u want that, yeah is not spelled yea

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

for the record: i started my DJ transition in about march of this year, when i found this site

I am currently trying to put these changes into practice

And second chances are rare, i simply dont want to waste this one

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

so keep the advice comin

 

[Starman]

dont get ****y with me junior..if you look in the dictionary Yea is spelled both ways

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

And second chances are rare, i simply dont want to waste this one

Your only in highschool!!!!!!

Don't sweat it.

There is a whole other life waiting for you when you get outta that place.

Cooch for thought:

There was this girl that sat in front of me, in my grade 11 English class.
She was the quiet, geeky type who never drank, nor did she have many friends that were "cool"

She DID have a pretty nice body, though. At least it looked like it, under the Glasses, Sweaters and other un-revealing garments she typically wore.

Anyways, she was a really nice girl, and we often chatted outta boredom, I guess.

I bumped into her recently.....It had been about 5 yrs since I saw her.

I'll tell ya.

I don't think i could get her if I tried, now. She is freakin' hot!!!!!!

Outta 10, she's a solid 9, where as she was but a 5 back in highschool.

That just goes to show you that for everyone, ther is still hope after highschool.

Let your HS experiences teach you, not define you.

The Bad Ass Canadian

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

this is true

but to be blunt:

I want to get some in high school, and be prepared for the world concerning relationships, etc...

So anything to help

 

[KaLiBuR Da DoN]

Ahhh I GIVE UP

 

[PiHiPlaya]

Just stop trying to get women, they'll notice you changed if you really have.

Don't try hard to get women to notice you... make life about you!

Read the Bible