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Don Juan
Ok, so I have had a batch of first dates, all from online.
Now the hit rate was low to nothing in terms of seconds.
I would obviously like to improve on this, but the problem is unless I can get them to fill in a feedback form at the end, how do you determine what you are doing wrong?
I don't even know how I can practically determine if the problem is physical, i.e. I am not physically good-looking enough, or personality, i.e. there are aspects of my personality I can work to improve.
How do you guys change your approachs to a date ?
I find it difficult to even go in with a plan of "ok I will try this tonight" becuase each one is unique and flows differently.
I'm sure I am going to be flamed with "dont over-analyse etc" but the point I am making is I don't know what I am doing wrong, so how do I improve?
Now the hit rate was low to nothing in terms of seconds.
I would obviously like to improve on this, but the problem is unless I can get them to fill in a feedback form at the end, how do you determine what you are doing wrong?
I don't even know how I can practically determine if the problem is physical, i.e. I am not physically good-looking enough, or personality, i.e. there are aspects of my personality I can work to improve.
How do you guys change your approachs to a date ?
I find it difficult to even go in with a plan of "ok I will try this tonight" becuase each one is unique and flows differently.
I'm sure I am going to be flamed with "dont over-analyse etc" but the point I am making is I don't know what I am doing wrong, so how do I improve?