Well her user name is "justanobject" and this is her profile or self summary. Anyone familar with OKcupid knows normally this is where girls describe themself in excruciating detail along with their hobbies and interest, and with the requisite statement that they are not looking for just sex.
#1. I met nnumber one when I was 17 at my first job. It was the whole puppy love thing. We flirted all the time and teased each other. After six months, he finally asked me out. He was my first kiss, my first love, and my first time. We dated for 3 and a half years. As much as I loved him, our relationship was full of fighting and doubts. At the end, I found out he had been cheating with lots of girls the last 2 and a half years of our relationship. It was an awful break up that made me a wreck for months. It wasn't easy to trust someone, and then he proved I shouldn't have.
#2. I met number two a couple months after the break up. He was on a college sports team with a friend from work. He would flirt at all the group hangouts and tried to find reasons to be around me. Then number two invited me over to watch a movie. He was very persistant. Eventually, I just gave in. I ended up stopping partway through and trying to not let him see me cry. I still loved number one and wasn't ready to have sex with anyone else. As for number two, we never talked again.
#3. Number three was the only other person not drinkingat a mutual friend's party. He was funny, charming, adorable, and sexy beyond belief. He carried my drunk friend to my car, which he used as an opportunity to give me a hug and a kiss. We texted all day everyday for two months. Then we hung out his house. He was fairly aggressive physically, but this time I wanted to have sex. I was head over heels for number three and ate up everything he said to me. We were off and on for three years with extreme highs and lows. No one has had so much control over my heart or shaped me so much sexually.
#4. Number four was a friend of a good friend. He was an All American nice guy. I liked him, but knew it wasn't love. I dated him because he was the kind of guy a girl is supposed to date, one who wont break your heart. We dated for six months. I only had sex with him because everyone gave me a hard time for not sleeping with him. It wasn't worth it. I broke his heart, but I couldn't string him along anymore.
#5. Number five was in a band, had tattoos and piercings, and did volunteer work. We talked for six hours on our first date. We had lots of fantastic dates and so much fun. Twenty minutes after the first time we had sex, he became a whole new person. He barely talked to me after that night, just enough to say it was my fault and we were done.
#6. Number five's treatment sent me into a phase in which I thought women should treat men the same way I had been treated. I met number six at a friend's party and we had sex a few days later. I took his virginity and probably broke his heart.
#3. Repeat.we had a "no strings attached" fling. I ended up pregnant. He told me he refused to be a parent, and there was only one solution. No one would help me or be there for me or the baby, so I did what number three said. It put an end to my ideas on men and sent me into a deep, secluded depression.
#7. I didn't want to...
#8. Just like number seven. I continuously put myself in bad situations.
#9. We met at work and dated 8 months. He ended up having a pill problem. He had emotional highs and lows and treated me like scenary. The relationship was empty. I broke his heart.
#10. Another bad situation. Lie there, try not to cry, and never talk to him again.
#11 & #12. Cannot be talked about, but sparked a new depression.
#13. Extremely handsome sweet talker. He was like number five. He did everything he could to convince me how great he was. After he got what he wanted, he never talked to me again.
