ketostix said:
Where do you meet these younger girls if not at the bar?
Usually through friends.
If you are in good with one or two younger girls, or even girls who are mid-late 20's who are friends with the younger ones, you're 95% of the way in.
I watched this scenario play out recently when I met a 21 yr old sorority chick who works with a female friend of mine who is in her late 20's. This chick had just turned 21 and was hitting the clubs with us for the first time.
This was your typical cheerleader type blonde, and she made it known that she despised "creepy old guys". But that didn't prevent me from making out with her a few times and rubbing her pu$$y at a party I had a couple of weeks later.
If I had hit on this chick in the club I would bet that even if my game was tight there would have been a much higher chance of me getting shot down, but since I had the social proof from her peer group (especially since it was other chicks who like me) I didn't face the same kind of resistance a guy would on a cold approach.
Danger, I agree if you have atttraction then age is mostly a non-issue. Attraction may not be a choice, but I don't believe it's a total involunatary thing for women and that doesn't mean a girl can't find you attractive but be unwilling to act on it if age is an issue for her.
Biologically speaking it isn't nearly as much of an issue for a woman to find an older man attractive as it is for a man to find an older woman attractive. Matter of fact it's in her best interest when she is seeking a provider, since a man can produce offspring well into old age, and his pool of resources generally increases the older he gets.
Most of what you hear women say is SOCIETY telling them to watch out for those "dirty old men", no different than society telling them to stay away from the "bad boys".
Do women ever listen?
I guess I don't personally know any older guys getting the young girls from the bars I go to or even see them try and it's not because they don't want younger girls! On the other hand I don't know too many younger guys that can either but the difference is I've seen them get much more positive reactions for girls when they approach.
Matter of fact, now that you mention it my last LTR I met at a club, and it wasn't through friends.
She was 21, I was 31. She didn't find out my age until a few weeks later when I ran into her again, and when I found out HER age I pull my famous "OMG your just a BABY" line.
A couple of weeks later I was having the best sex of my life with an asian hottie with a tight little body. I need to find me another one of those......
. If you run into this problem and don't want to talk about it openly feel free to PM. But seriously, any mature man knows this is female BS, but BS is real nonetheless. And I believe this is what this site and PU is about, getting around female BS. I'd like to get some imput from you mature guys that really actively pick up on the younger girls.
