PimpOfTheSouth
Don Juan
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Ill try to make it short as possible.
Me and my girl had been together for about 3 1/2 Years last june, we had been arguing a lot the previous couple of months I didnt think of it as anything. Well I ended up breaking up with her because we just werent clicking and she was fighting with me all the time. I kind of took her for granted being that I was always in control of the relationship and I was sure we would end up getting back together and working it out. As it turned out she started talking to another guy at this point is where it went all wrong and I developed what I call severe Oneitis. The first thing I told her when I FOUND OUT WAS "baby dont worry about it we can work it out" I had done so many things wrong to her I felt guilty and I felt that I was the one that had caused this. I was an insecure boyfriend to say the least now that I look back. The one that would be all pissed off if I even seen her talk to another guy, I HAD TOTAL CONTROL AND PRETTY MUCH HAD HER ON LOCKDOWN. Well the story goes she started talking with this other guy but would still either call me or text me everyday during this summer stretch. After begging and pleading, Yes I know thats desperate and lame, I was able to get her to start talking to me again and we got back together. But this 2nd time around was totally different now she had all the power and would use it towards me excessively. The examples are things like she would think she was better then me and act like I was lucky to be with her. Finally I broke up with her again but she didnt really care its almost as if she acted like that so I would break up with her so she wouldnt have to. That entire second time we were together I cried a good amount of times asking how come she wasnt the same anymore and why did she have to start talking to another guy. It was obvious that while she was with me the 2nd time she still liked this other dude. I mean the typical short answers, she didnt text like she used to, and didnt even want to talk on the phone. She ended up getting with this guy in January but yet would still text me everyday like clock work good morning, goodnight even if I didnt text her. She would and still texts me things like your my special one and I know we ae going to be together for sure.
I want to be with you just not now. Everyday she still texts me or calls and I never initiate the contact its always her. We have never in 4 years went more then 2 weeks without talking. Fast Forward now to April and this dude broke up with her and she tells Me I just want to be single but constantly texts me I miss you and I love you I mean almost everyday. I by mistake put this girl on a pedestal I know that. If I ignore her for a while she texts me verses from songs almost constantly and tells me I know we will be back together soon. I think I know part of my problem is that Im to available to her. Yesterday i went to the phone store and had my phone number changed I told her I was going to do it and she begged me not to she said be patient will be back together soon but please dont change it because I love you!
In my last Text I told her goodluck with your life and I hope everything turns out the way you want goodbye. Her last text was "No! I love you!"
I still love this girl but in my opinion she is just playing way to much games and taking me for granted shes the kind of girl that wouldnt believe in her right mind I would Leave Her. Its like she has her cake and is eating it to. I asked her why she wont let go of me and she said because her heart is afraid to. I think I still have some pull over this girl but I have failed to excersise any of my power left.
So my question is 1. did I do the right thing by changing my number?
Or 2. Should I have kept my original number and ignored her?
3. I still want to get this girl back in my favor where do I go from here?
Me and my girl had been together for about 3 1/2 Years last june, we had been arguing a lot the previous couple of months I didnt think of it as anything. Well I ended up breaking up with her because we just werent clicking and she was fighting with me all the time. I kind of took her for granted being that I was always in control of the relationship and I was sure we would end up getting back together and working it out. As it turned out she started talking to another guy at this point is where it went all wrong and I developed what I call severe Oneitis. The first thing I told her when I FOUND OUT WAS "baby dont worry about it we can work it out" I had done so many things wrong to her I felt guilty and I felt that I was the one that had caused this. I was an insecure boyfriend to say the least now that I look back. The one that would be all pissed off if I even seen her talk to another guy, I HAD TOTAL CONTROL AND PRETTY MUCH HAD HER ON LOCKDOWN. Well the story goes she started talking with this other guy but would still either call me or text me everyday during this summer stretch. After begging and pleading, Yes I know thats desperate and lame, I was able to get her to start talking to me again and we got back together. But this 2nd time around was totally different now she had all the power and would use it towards me excessively. The examples are things like she would think she was better then me and act like I was lucky to be with her. Finally I broke up with her again but she didnt really care its almost as if she acted like that so I would break up with her so she wouldnt have to. That entire second time we were together I cried a good amount of times asking how come she wasnt the same anymore and why did she have to start talking to another guy. It was obvious that while she was with me the 2nd time she still liked this other dude. I mean the typical short answers, she didnt text like she used to, and didnt even want to talk on the phone. She ended up getting with this guy in January but yet would still text me everyday like clock work good morning, goodnight even if I didnt text her. She would and still texts me things like your my special one and I know we ae going to be together for sure.
I want to be with you just not now. Everyday she still texts me or calls and I never initiate the contact its always her. We have never in 4 years went more then 2 weeks without talking. Fast Forward now to April and this dude broke up with her and she tells Me I just want to be single but constantly texts me I miss you and I love you I mean almost everyday. I by mistake put this girl on a pedestal I know that. If I ignore her for a while she texts me verses from songs almost constantly and tells me I know we will be back together soon. I think I know part of my problem is that Im to available to her. Yesterday i went to the phone store and had my phone number changed I told her I was going to do it and she begged me not to she said be patient will be back together soon but please dont change it because I love you!
In my last Text I told her goodluck with your life and I hope everything turns out the way you want goodbye. Her last text was "No! I love you!"
I still love this girl but in my opinion she is just playing way to much games and taking me for granted shes the kind of girl that wouldnt believe in her right mind I would Leave Her. Its like she has her cake and is eating it to. I asked her why she wont let go of me and she said because her heart is afraid to. I think I still have some pull over this girl but I have failed to excersise any of my power left.
So my question is 1. did I do the right thing by changing my number?
Or 2. Should I have kept my original number and ignored her?
3. I still want to get this girl back in my favor where do I go from here?
