dissendent
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Bare with me. Here's some history for you. I hired this woman 3 years ago to work for me on a project. She was an awesome employee and I mean that professionally. Well, since I moved to another project about 2 years ago, I brought her with me to work on the same project. Then about a year ago, I left that project to work on another project and we decided to be good friends outside of work. We hung out about 2-3 times a month. Just recently, I was promoted to a permanent position in a separate department than her. No more project management.
So now that we're about 50 yards from another, we often visit with each other and have lunch almost every day together. She decided to start telling me about her love life. Like the people she dates, likes and dislikes about them etc. I give her advice and she continues to come to me for that. Well, Im starting to get attracted to her and we are now going out to dinners 2-3 times a week including having lunch almost everyday. We have conversations on the phone every other day from 8PM to 3AM. This girl can talk!!! But I like that!
I dont have the nerve to do or say anything just because she looks up to me as a mentor and a really really good friend. I want more, but I have no idea if she does.
Any ideas on how to let her know how I feel? I also think Valentines Day would be a good time to tell her. What do you think?
So now that we're about 50 yards from another, we often visit with each other and have lunch almost every day together. She decided to start telling me about her love life. Like the people she dates, likes and dislikes about them etc. I give her advice and she continues to come to me for that. Well, Im starting to get attracted to her and we are now going out to dinners 2-3 times a week including having lunch almost everyday. We have conversations on the phone every other day from 8PM to 3AM. This girl can talk!!! But I like that!
I dont have the nerve to do or say anything just because she looks up to me as a mentor and a really really good friend. I want more, but I have no idea if she does.
Any ideas on how to let her know how I feel? I also think Valentines Day would be a good time to tell her. What do you think?