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Master Don Juan
I didn't wanna really make a post like this, but to be honest i wanted to get another perspective on this.
I have been dating this girl for 1 and a half months nearly, stayed over her house a few times as she has done in mine and we go out on a date about once a week. Now when i first went out with her i made it clear that i don't get commited to easy, but for some reason i have a feeling she thinks we may be boyfriend and girlfriend. I would of thought we would have to have some kind of discussion about this, but she does ask me a lot of questions like where i am going, who with, is it a boy or girl, friend or not friend which makes me now think otherwise.
Now she is a nice girl, which is exactlly the reason why i don't wanna hurt her in the long run. I do like her a lot, but there is still something missing, so i do not want her to get the wrong idea and think that i am cheating or what not whilst i date other girls. I had a talk with a friend today and apparently she said that i am her boyfriend and that i just don't know it. She also said it is better to be trueful than kind and that i should have a talk about what the relationship is first and then just tell her how i feel and what i want and if it is not possible then just end it.
What do you guys think? and is it possible to see a girl for this amount of time regularly and not be in a relationship?
I have been dating this girl for 1 and a half months nearly, stayed over her house a few times as she has done in mine and we go out on a date about once a week. Now when i first went out with her i made it clear that i don't get commited to easy, but for some reason i have a feeling she thinks we may be boyfriend and girlfriend. I would of thought we would have to have some kind of discussion about this, but she does ask me a lot of questions like where i am going, who with, is it a boy or girl, friend or not friend which makes me now think otherwise.
Now she is a nice girl, which is exactlly the reason why i don't wanna hurt her in the long run. I do like her a lot, but there is still something missing, so i do not want her to get the wrong idea and think that i am cheating or what not whilst i date other girls. I had a talk with a friend today and apparently she said that i am her boyfriend and that i just don't know it. She also said it is better to be trueful than kind and that i should have a talk about what the relationship is first and then just tell her how i feel and what i want and if it is not possible then just end it.
What do you guys think? and is it possible to see a girl for this amount of time regularly and not be in a relationship?