TheFlyingMan
Don Juan
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- Mar 19, 2006
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There's this HB7 that I met through some friends (we went out on group activities etc).
I'm always laid back and relaxed, don't call her much, just out to have fun. She was giving me lots of IOIs after a couple of weeks. She touches me a lot, and leans in to me, asks me out to a few movies one on one. So I step it up a tiny bit. I don't say anything, but during our one on one meetings. I do things like putting my arm around her when we walk to and from the car, etc. She doesn't lean in back or anything, but she doesn't pull away either.
I thought she might be just shy, so I decided to take the lead a little bit more. I started calling her up instead of her calling me all the time. Not calling her everyday or anything, but I call her sometimes, maybe around once per 3 days and ask her out. She's turned me down like the past 3 times (her parents are in town and she wants to spend time with them, which might be a real reason BUT the last time we went out her parents are still around.) And she doesn't lean into me or touch me very much anymore.
I have no idea if i'm reading too much into this or have i slipped back into AFC mode without knowing it?
I'm always laid back and relaxed, don't call her much, just out to have fun. She was giving me lots of IOIs after a couple of weeks. She touches me a lot, and leans in to me, asks me out to a few movies one on one. So I step it up a tiny bit. I don't say anything, but during our one on one meetings. I do things like putting my arm around her when we walk to and from the car, etc. She doesn't lean in back or anything, but she doesn't pull away either.
I thought she might be just shy, so I decided to take the lead a little bit more. I started calling her up instead of her calling me all the time. Not calling her everyday or anything, but I call her sometimes, maybe around once per 3 days and ask her out. She's turned me down like the past 3 times (her parents are in town and she wants to spend time with them, which might be a real reason BUT the last time we went out her parents are still around.) And she doesn't lean into me or touch me very much anymore.
I have no idea if i'm reading too much into this or have i slipped back into AFC mode without knowing it?