For some reason im cold towards other women after my BPD ex. I cant connect. I feel like my neurons for infatuation have burned out. I cant feel that chemical high of limerence anymore. I can only feel it for the BPD. This happens even when i meet other hotter girls. I feel like i have been Alpha widowed (BPD widowed) in this case. Those BPD chemical highs and lows were way too intense. Sane girls can not compete.
My game has gotten a lot better because of this. Girls sense the coldness. The indifference. Its like im just going through the motions. I dont get mad if a girl flakes ( rarely happens) I dont react too strongly to sh*t tests. I truly dont care. The sane girls love it. Arguments with sane girls are a cake walk now. After fighting with a BPD, fighting with a sane girl is a cake walk.
I have a new girlfriend who is in the same hotness range as my BPD ex. Not much difference. The new girl is probably a tad less hot but they are both 7+ easily. The new girl is relatively mentally stable. Besides her not cooking and eating out too much she is good. Most guys would be happy to date her. For some reason i cant feel passionate about her and other women.
I imagine that this is what it feels like for a girl to be Alpha widowed. Did any of you guys have this experience after a break up with a BPD?
My game has gotten a lot better because of this. Girls sense the coldness. The indifference. Its like im just going through the motions. I dont get mad if a girl flakes ( rarely happens) I dont react too strongly to sh*t tests. I truly dont care. The sane girls love it. Arguments with sane girls are a cake walk now. After fighting with a BPD, fighting with a sane girl is a cake walk.
I have a new girlfriend who is in the same hotness range as my BPD ex. Not much difference. The new girl is probably a tad less hot but they are both 7+ easily. The new girl is relatively mentally stable. Besides her not cooking and eating out too much she is good. Most guys would be happy to date her. For some reason i cant feel passionate about her and other women.
I imagine that this is what it feels like for a girl to be Alpha widowed. Did any of you guys have this experience after a break up with a BPD?