Hello everyone, from RAFC's to Master DJs, I’m here to discuss an point of view shared by a friend of mine to me. It was in a bar on a busy Saturday night. The observation he gave was an very interesting and unique view on this whole girl scene. I must also note this observation was shared to me after he assisted in me in chatting up one HB. ( which went nowhere, as I was unprepared ).
‘ To me, all men are ugly ‘ he told me ‘ See my friend there? Look at the girl he has! She’s savage! Now, look at him, as ugly as hell! ’ ‘ That’s…. an interesting viewpoint. ‘ I replied ‘ If that’s the case, how do us guys gain the girls we want, if looks are gone out the window? ‘ Charm ‘ he told me ‘ Charm, you have to charm your way in ‘
‘ So, how do use this charm to get the girl? ‘ I asked ‘ Simple, you must be the one always asking questions ‘ ‘ What type of questions? ‘ I asked ‘ The simple stuff like where do you live, what college do you go to, what year are you in, what do you hope to do when your older, etc. ‘
‘ I suggest you have a list of about 10 questions to ask a girl when you first meet them, like the ones I just told you, this should lead to you ending up extending them with your own as they arise, then after about 30 or 40 questions, you ask one last question, and it MUST be the final question you ask! ‘
“ Oh, one last thing, I was wondering, do you have a boyfriend? “
‘ Depending on the response you will know if she’s interested and how to act accordingly:
If she says yes; Either she really does have a boyfriend or she’s JUST NOT INTERESTED. If this is the case wind up the conversation by saying something around the lines of ‘ Oh, that’s cool, it was nice talking to you, I’ll see you again! ‘ and then walk away ( DON’T try anything stupid, you don’t want to get hurt, do you? )
However if she’s says no: Congratulations, she IS interested in you! At this point, you carry the conversation on by looking shocked and replying to it by saying ‘ So, you mean to me you don’t have a boyfriend? ‘ you should start complimenting her from here on in ( just don’t overdo it! ) things should work out from there! ‘
Here I was, being made aware of an elusive ‘ secret weapon ‘ that I had spent years trying to figure out! My friend simplified so well, I just ‘ got it ‘ straight away as he was telling me but there was one other thing I wanted to know ‘ Ok, you introduced to the last girl I was talking to, I’m a bit shy to do on my own, how do I overcome that? ‘ he replied ‘ Use the environment around you to your advantage, if a glass breaks on the ground or something like and your near a girl you want to talk to. Go over to her and briefly talk about how it gave you fright or whatever, after that, move onto asking the questions ‘
It can happen anytime, anywhere, more than likely by accident, A personal example of this for me occurred last New Years Eve when I was out, I saw another friend of mine ( who fairly drunk at this stage ) talking to a group of HBs so I went over without even thinking about it and said to my friend ‘ Hey, you can’t be doing that, taking 3 girls fro yourself! There’s other guys here, too! ‘ after a bit of mocking of him from me, I ended up chatting up one of the girls in the group for a good 10 minutes! Just comes to prove that the unexpected DOES happen!
Now, I have information that could literally turn my whole ‘ love - life ‘ around and help me land some HBs for a change! After this, to aid, I wrote a list of generic questions to ask to girl when I first meet them and how to react to the 2 possible response for the ‘ Do you have a boyfriend? ‘ question. ( Which ,to remind you, MUST be the last question you ask to her! ) I suggest you do the same as well, around the same lines as my friend told me.
Hopefully, this observation may just be the key to the safe you’ve being looking for!
NHY
‘ To me, all men are ugly ‘ he told me ‘ See my friend there? Look at the girl he has! She’s savage! Now, look at him, as ugly as hell! ’ ‘ That’s…. an interesting viewpoint. ‘ I replied ‘ If that’s the case, how do us guys gain the girls we want, if looks are gone out the window? ‘ Charm ‘ he told me ‘ Charm, you have to charm your way in ‘
‘ So, how do use this charm to get the girl? ‘ I asked ‘ Simple, you must be the one always asking questions ‘ ‘ What type of questions? ‘ I asked ‘ The simple stuff like where do you live, what college do you go to, what year are you in, what do you hope to do when your older, etc. ‘
‘ I suggest you have a list of about 10 questions to ask a girl when you first meet them, like the ones I just told you, this should lead to you ending up extending them with your own as they arise, then after about 30 or 40 questions, you ask one last question, and it MUST be the final question you ask! ‘
“ Oh, one last thing, I was wondering, do you have a boyfriend? “
‘ Depending on the response you will know if she’s interested and how to act accordingly:
If she says yes; Either she really does have a boyfriend or she’s JUST NOT INTERESTED. If this is the case wind up the conversation by saying something around the lines of ‘ Oh, that’s cool, it was nice talking to you, I’ll see you again! ‘ and then walk away ( DON’T try anything stupid, you don’t want to get hurt, do you? )
However if she’s says no: Congratulations, she IS interested in you! At this point, you carry the conversation on by looking shocked and replying to it by saying ‘ So, you mean to me you don’t have a boyfriend? ‘ you should start complimenting her from here on in ( just don’t overdo it! ) things should work out from there! ‘
Here I was, being made aware of an elusive ‘ secret weapon ‘ that I had spent years trying to figure out! My friend simplified so well, I just ‘ got it ‘ straight away as he was telling me but there was one other thing I wanted to know ‘ Ok, you introduced to the last girl I was talking to, I’m a bit shy to do on my own, how do I overcome that? ‘ he replied ‘ Use the environment around you to your advantage, if a glass breaks on the ground or something like and your near a girl you want to talk to. Go over to her and briefly talk about how it gave you fright or whatever, after that, move onto asking the questions ‘
It can happen anytime, anywhere, more than likely by accident, A personal example of this for me occurred last New Years Eve when I was out, I saw another friend of mine ( who fairly drunk at this stage ) talking to a group of HBs so I went over without even thinking about it and said to my friend ‘ Hey, you can’t be doing that, taking 3 girls fro yourself! There’s other guys here, too! ‘ after a bit of mocking of him from me, I ended up chatting up one of the girls in the group for a good 10 minutes! Just comes to prove that the unexpected DOES happen!
Now, I have information that could literally turn my whole ‘ love - life ‘ around and help me land some HBs for a change! After this, to aid, I wrote a list of generic questions to ask to girl when I first meet them and how to react to the 2 possible response for the ‘ Do you have a boyfriend? ‘ question. ( Which ,to remind you, MUST be the last question you ask to her! ) I suggest you do the same as well, around the same lines as my friend told me.
Hopefully, this observation may just be the key to the safe you’ve being looking for!
NHY
