Kourt said:yeah nighter its scary ****, been throug the same with ya there
She has no friends left, failed in school. Just some dude that will experience same thing i have done, and when she are tiered of him, she eventuelly will call me again. Then i have to be strong and don't answer, because sincerely i know iam to good for her
exactly man, she failed out of school too and has no friends left
Guys I have changed so much already since I've decided to dump her, heres a list of resolutions I have made:
1) cutting down on swearing
2) going back to church
3) working out again
4) re-expand my social network
5) make new friends
6) be more selective about my sig others
7) quit chewing
8) smoke wayyyy less pot
And the ultimate.
forgive her, you see her problems she does not, dont hate her, if anything pity her and hope at one point in her life she will see a better way and become less destructive. Untill then you really have gained nothing more then experiance, it is after all a journey
I know it is hard when one hurts but it is far easier to let go move on and focus on you, dont fall in the trap of hate and anger it just consumes as much as the poor relationship did.
JUST:
accept it did not work out for what ever reason, dont throw blame it takes two to get to this stage.
Both of the guys here! You learned alot from this, this was the best thing out of it all, you have become stronger to things like this in future, lesson learnt the hard way but still learnt regardless, it is about YOU after all.
In time you will thank her if you focus on you, she wont see it but she has helped in away to kick your ass into a better longing for the finer things and not put up with BS women and poor issues.
Do you think you will ever entertain a women like this again?
The answer is simply no.
Unless you want to stagnate that is.