To me, an AFC ("Average Frustrated Chump") is not a guy that lacks success with the opposite sex, it is a guy that lacks success with the opposite sex and is angry about lacking success with the opposite sex. A few weeks ago I read the manifesto of the Isla Vista shooter and watched some of his videos, though he is quite the extreme case of an AFC because most AFCs won't do something that crazy, it made me think that AFCs are really a result of a culture that puts unrealistic sexual expectations on men. In my honest opinion, I do not believe that the biological need for sex is as big of a deal as some would think. Over the years I have met people from many different countries and have found that men from non-Anglo countries tend to be happy despite being virgins at such a late age (22, 23, and even 25).
One guy I met was a virgin at 24 and got married to a girl he met at the age of 27, right now he is a father and is in a happy marriage with a cute girl. Just looking at this guy I thought to myself that had he grown up in America, particularly Southern California, he would have been borderline depressed for being a 24 yr old virgin.
The fact of the matter is that western culture puts unrealistic sexual expectations on men, in order for men to be "respected" they have to sleep with as many attractive women as possible. That is why athletes get so much more respect than scientists, doctors, and teachers because athletes sleep with hot women. The fact of the matter is, most guys out there do not have the opportunity to sleep with hot women and our culture has taking the stance to ridicule them for it. Given that situation, we should not be that shocked that there are so many sexually frustrated men here in western society.
Now given that these guys have been frustrated their whole lives for not having sex with the cheerleader in high school or the sorority girl in college, they tend to overcompensate to where they will attempt to sleep with as many girls as possible to prove themselves to the culture. The whole process makes men into monsters who are never happy with the sex they get and it isn't that I care about what they do to women but rather what they do to themselves. Growing up, the role models that kids look up to are the kind of men that have lots of sex with lots of hot girls and all kids want to be that guy. The fact of the matter is that most kids cannot be that guy which as a result turns into frustration, anger, envy towards those guys, jealousy, and a mix of negative emotions.
It's not that these guys are angry because they cannot get sex, it is because there is an immense pressure on young men in our society to have sex with lots of hot women. If young men cannot have sex with hot women then they are degraded and looked down upon which hurts their self-esteem and has them trying to get as much sex as possible. Once they fail at that, you have an AFC who could potentially be a danger to society.
One guy I met was a virgin at 24 and got married to a girl he met at the age of 27, right now he is a father and is in a happy marriage with a cute girl. Just looking at this guy I thought to myself that had he grown up in America, particularly Southern California, he would have been borderline depressed for being a 24 yr old virgin.
The fact of the matter is that western culture puts unrealistic sexual expectations on men, in order for men to be "respected" they have to sleep with as many attractive women as possible. That is why athletes get so much more respect than scientists, doctors, and teachers because athletes sleep with hot women. The fact of the matter is, most guys out there do not have the opportunity to sleep with hot women and our culture has taking the stance to ridicule them for it. Given that situation, we should not be that shocked that there are so many sexually frustrated men here in western society.
Now given that these guys have been frustrated their whole lives for not having sex with the cheerleader in high school or the sorority girl in college, they tend to overcompensate to where they will attempt to sleep with as many girls as possible to prove themselves to the culture. The whole process makes men into monsters who are never happy with the sex they get and it isn't that I care about what they do to women but rather what they do to themselves. Growing up, the role models that kids look up to are the kind of men that have lots of sex with lots of hot girls and all kids want to be that guy. The fact of the matter is that most kids cannot be that guy which as a result turns into frustration, anger, envy towards those guys, jealousy, and a mix of negative emotions.
It's not that these guys are angry because they cannot get sex, it is because there is an immense pressure on young men in our society to have sex with lots of hot women. If young men cannot have sex with hot women then they are degraded and looked down upon which hurts their self-esteem and has them trying to get as much sex as possible. Once they fail at that, you have an AFC who could potentially be a danger to society.