afc_2_dj
Don Juan
Hi all,
Ok, I have been lurking for a while, this is a fantastic forum, I have searched the 'net for a while looking for real practical info, and this is a goldmine.
Going through the DJB, etc, I have made a number of changes to my "game", in terms of stance, body language, and must say _feel_ very confident, etc, etc in the club.
I find I now either take notice of oppertunities, etc that my have even existed before, I just [I admit] deliberatly ignored them out of fear.
This leads to my question, I find that despite having read the threads/djb/etc on convo, I find I don't approach primarily becuase I just cannot think of anything to say!! I then feel like an AFC for not approaching!! I'v come to realize the truth in what the say re: approaching immeditly rather than floating, later that oppertunit is gone.
I realize this is really a dynamic issue, with no real answer, basically take it on the fly as such, but I was hoping maybe the true DJ's on this site could give some additional pointers as to what to talk about when just making n approach?
To me, a whole "what do u do" thing is stupid and boring?!
Ok, I have been lurking for a while, this is a fantastic forum, I have searched the 'net for a while looking for real practical info, and this is a goldmine.
Going through the DJB, etc, I have made a number of changes to my "game", in terms of stance, body language, and must say _feel_ very confident, etc, etc in the club.
I find I now either take notice of oppertunities, etc that my have even existed before, I just [I admit] deliberatly ignored them out of fear.
This leads to my question, I find that despite having read the threads/djb/etc on convo, I find I don't approach primarily becuase I just cannot think of anything to say!! I then feel like an AFC for not approaching!! I'v come to realize the truth in what the say re: approaching immeditly rather than floating, later that oppertunit is gone.
I realize this is really a dynamic issue, with no real answer, basically take it on the fly as such, but I was hoping maybe the true DJ's on this site could give some additional pointers as to what to talk about when just making n approach?
To me, a whole "what do u do" thing is stupid and boring?!