Dongfu
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This tip relates to the way women see you in relation to where you stand and what you do in a night club.
Everyone in a night club or other social setting is in fact a customer. What you are selling, or what they are buying is your social skills. They are buying into believing that you are a cool, likable, easy going person. The more people in social gathering you can get to like you, the easier it will be to get the target to like you.
As you sell yourself to other people, you simultaneously sell yourself to her, even if you haven’t seen or decided who “her” is. If you are following the above advice, you can bet that she is noticing.
As good practice, I advise to treat the entire social setting as your own store. You are the product, and every other person there is a customer. Make it your responsibility to greet every customer. This will build social skills and social proof at the same time. One simple method you could use in a club would be to walk around the place and "check on" your customers.
"Is everyone enjoying themselves tonight?"
“Great, is this your first time in the club?”
If they say “Yes,” say “Welcome back, when were you in last?” Shut up, observe and mirror.
If they say “No,” say, “Welcome, great to have you. Enjoy yourselves.”
Implying that you have some official purpose for walking around and talking to people will give you status. People will wonder, “He must be one of the owners or something.”
If anyone asks you if you work there, you could reply with something like, “I help out with public relations, make sure everyone is having a good time.”
This is actually a true statement. You never said you get paid for it. Being a little vague will create suspense and mystery. To the group you will be seen as someone important. To anyone else watching, it will seem that you have a lot of friends.
Everyone in a night club or other social setting is in fact a customer. What you are selling, or what they are buying is your social skills. They are buying into believing that you are a cool, likable, easy going person. The more people in social gathering you can get to like you, the easier it will be to get the target to like you.
As you sell yourself to other people, you simultaneously sell yourself to her, even if you haven’t seen or decided who “her” is. If you are following the above advice, you can bet that she is noticing.
As good practice, I advise to treat the entire social setting as your own store. You are the product, and every other person there is a customer. Make it your responsibility to greet every customer. This will build social skills and social proof at the same time. One simple method you could use in a club would be to walk around the place and "check on" your customers.
"Is everyone enjoying themselves tonight?"
“Great, is this your first time in the club?”
If they say “Yes,” say “Welcome back, when were you in last?” Shut up, observe and mirror.
If they say “No,” say, “Welcome, great to have you. Enjoy yourselves.”
Implying that you have some official purpose for walking around and talking to people will give you status. People will wonder, “He must be one of the owners or something.”
If anyone asks you if you work there, you could reply with something like, “I help out with public relations, make sure everyone is having a good time.”
This is actually a true statement. You never said you get paid for it. Being a little vague will create suspense and mystery. To the group you will be seen as someone important. To anyone else watching, it will seem that you have a lot of friends.
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