Jeffst1980
Master Don Juan
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I'm generally not a fan of using canned routines, but I do think it is important to have a "stockpile" of conversational threads ready to go at all times on a cold approach. Ease in conversation is what allows a girl to relax her guard and trust you in leading the interaction--something that can't happen when there's awkward silence and fumbling.
I find that the best threads are the ones that play to a girl's sense of fantasy and make her feel like a kid again, rather than deep, emotional stuff or threads of a sexual nature. As far as PUA's are concerned, some of Mystery's material is rather good, but I think Mehow does this the best. The easy part is that once you get going, you can cut to a new thread at ANY TIME without explanation--so long as it's in the same nonsensical mode. This doesn't work with logical conversation.
Here's a few threads that I like to use for cold approaches--I'd love to hear all your ideas, as well. Usually, I'll just take a thread and riff on it for awhile, then cut to a new one. You should be getting more and more compliance as time goes on.
-"What were you like in junior high?"
-"I can tell you're pretty shy normally, but around the right people you have a wild side" (or any nonspecific cold reading)
-"What did you want to be when you were little?"
-Introduce her to someone as your little sister and play along--girls LOVE this
-"I can tell you're trouble with a capital T (said after any thread without explanation)
-Offer to take a picture of the set, then give them posing instructions
-Talk to the obstacle, then turn to the target, feign shock and say "Don't you give me that look!" Then, cut to a new thread. Accuse her of giving you that "look" again later.
-Get a roll of gold star stickers and award them to girls (or take them away)--I read that on this site, credit whoever came up with it, it's great.
-Bring a small videocamera/digital camera and tell them you're filming a documentary. Make them pose as an expert on a random subject and tape them b.s.-ing about it.
-"Describe yourself to me...in the form of a haiku. Go." (if they get confused, look exasperated and give them instructions)
-"If you could be any person for just one day, who would it be?"
-"That guy [point to creepy dude] TOTALLY has his eye on you. Don't worry, I'll protect you." (make sure you have good rapport before doing this)
This stuff is really only suited for night game. Day game threads should be much more logical and reality-based. However, at a bar/club/party, logical threads get you nowhere.
Your turn...post your favorite threads!
I find that the best threads are the ones that play to a girl's sense of fantasy and make her feel like a kid again, rather than deep, emotional stuff or threads of a sexual nature. As far as PUA's are concerned, some of Mystery's material is rather good, but I think Mehow does this the best. The easy part is that once you get going, you can cut to a new thread at ANY TIME without explanation--so long as it's in the same nonsensical mode. This doesn't work with logical conversation.
Here's a few threads that I like to use for cold approaches--I'd love to hear all your ideas, as well. Usually, I'll just take a thread and riff on it for awhile, then cut to a new one. You should be getting more and more compliance as time goes on.
-"What were you like in junior high?"
-"I can tell you're pretty shy normally, but around the right people you have a wild side" (or any nonspecific cold reading)
-"What did you want to be when you were little?"
-Introduce her to someone as your little sister and play along--girls LOVE this
-"I can tell you're trouble with a capital T (said after any thread without explanation)
-Offer to take a picture of the set, then give them posing instructions
-Talk to the obstacle, then turn to the target, feign shock and say "Don't you give me that look!" Then, cut to a new thread. Accuse her of giving you that "look" again later.
-Get a roll of gold star stickers and award them to girls (or take them away)--I read that on this site, credit whoever came up with it, it's great.
-Bring a small videocamera/digital camera and tell them you're filming a documentary. Make them pose as an expert on a random subject and tape them b.s.-ing about it.
-"Describe yourself to me...in the form of a haiku. Go." (if they get confused, look exasperated and give them instructions)
-"If you could be any person for just one day, who would it be?"
-"That guy [point to creepy dude] TOTALLY has his eye on you. Don't worry, I'll protect you." (make sure you have good rapport before doing this)
This stuff is really only suited for night game. Day game threads should be much more logical and reality-based. However, at a bar/club/party, logical threads get you nowhere.
Your turn...post your favorite threads!
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