jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 13, 2001
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You know how sometimes a chick will initially diss you, then do a complete 180 and want to lap up your urine because you've demonstrated value?
I'll provide an example:
You sit next to a woman on the plane, and you try to make some conversation with her, out of friendliness (but if she offered to sleep with you, you wouldn't refuse either). She acts like a stuck up ho', so you stop paying any attention to her. You're also quite annoyed at her lack of common courtesy. "Next", you say. And the plane takes off.
Then later 29,000 feet, you take out your briefcase to catch up on some of the business briefings that your subordinates have given you to read up on before you arrive at your business destination. It's full of company profiles and insider tips on financial acquisitions and aggressive take-overs, etc. -- it's obvious to her that you're a big time player in the financial market, and probably one with a bank account to prove it. The smell of the shiny leather briefcase and the expensive Mont Blanc fountain pen you took out of it only confirm her suspicions. She checks your hand for a wedding ring, but there is none. And, as luck would have it for her, you've never been married, and only just got out of a long relationship (but she doesn't know all that).
Now her mind is racing at a hundred miles, and she can't decide if she should start another conversation with you or not.
So -- now you're at this point. She's obviously all ears, but will you relent? I'm not sure if I would -- and when I say this, I'm not making a stance and emploring other DJs to stand by me. I'm just stating what I would do: just leave the stuck-up ho' and kick dust in her face as I disembark from the plane.
However, I'm beginning to question if that is the right thing to do - after all they are just human, like we are. Maybe a really gross guy had hit on her before she boarded the plane and so she had her guard up. Or maybe she was just not in the mood (PMS? Dog died? Mom disowned her?). Heck, maybe she's married!
Currently, I'm in the process of letting go of my EGO when it comes to my interactions with women. Before I found this site over 2 years ago, I wasn't that much of a push over; by initially taking the advice given here to heart too much, I think I've become too much of a hardass.
So - what say you, fellow DJs? Give a girl a second chance after the initial rejection, or kick dirt in her face?
I'll provide an example:
You sit next to a woman on the plane, and you try to make some conversation with her, out of friendliness (but if she offered to sleep with you, you wouldn't refuse either). She acts like a stuck up ho', so you stop paying any attention to her. You're also quite annoyed at her lack of common courtesy. "Next", you say. And the plane takes off.
Then later 29,000 feet, you take out your briefcase to catch up on some of the business briefings that your subordinates have given you to read up on before you arrive at your business destination. It's full of company profiles and insider tips on financial acquisitions and aggressive take-overs, etc. -- it's obvious to her that you're a big time player in the financial market, and probably one with a bank account to prove it. The smell of the shiny leather briefcase and the expensive Mont Blanc fountain pen you took out of it only confirm her suspicions. She checks your hand for a wedding ring, but there is none. And, as luck would have it for her, you've never been married, and only just got out of a long relationship (but she doesn't know all that).
Now her mind is racing at a hundred miles, and she can't decide if she should start another conversation with you or not.
So -- now you're at this point. She's obviously all ears, but will you relent? I'm not sure if I would -- and when I say this, I'm not making a stance and emploring other DJs to stand by me. I'm just stating what I would do: just leave the stuck-up ho' and kick dust in her face as I disembark from the plane.
However, I'm beginning to question if that is the right thing to do - after all they are just human, like we are. Maybe a really gross guy had hit on her before she boarded the plane and so she had her guard up. Or maybe she was just not in the mood (PMS? Dog died? Mom disowned her?). Heck, maybe she's married!
Currently, I'm in the process of letting go of my EGO when it comes to my interactions with women. Before I found this site over 2 years ago, I wasn't that much of a push over; by initially taking the advice given here to heart too much, I think I've become too much of a hardass.
So - what say you, fellow DJs? Give a girl a second chance after the initial rejection, or kick dirt in her face?
