TheTraveller
Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 30, 2003
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- 184
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Yes, I'm now getting back into the game again after a LTR. I'm in the process of finishing the DJ Bible, but there's just one main thing that seems to be in my way of progression. I know it sounds silly, but please, hear me out. Perhaps you have had similar experiences or wise advice. This isn't something that I've really talked about until now so I'm hoping for some decent responses.
I have no problems chatting up the sales lady, the cashier, where they are paid to be in a customer service role. I'm witty, use plenty of C&F and they usually laugh and engage in the conversation. I've had a few gf's in the past, and after a few dates they've mentioned in passing about what I'm going to tell you, but that's really all it has been - a mentioning of it.
This thing is my eyes tend to be slightly red, with one eye being a pink tone at both corners and sides of the eye all of the time (so only the corners and sides of the eye are a pink color, thus leaving some white between it and the cornea (middle part).
This is something that I've tried to remedy but nothing has worked. It looks like something I'm going to have to live with.
I know this all seems to be cosmetic. I know that I need to somehow block this out. When it's worse than normal, people I know may mention my eyes are red. I tend to let these comments not bother me much.
I know I'm a decent, normal looking guy and can definitely dress stylish and look above average at times. "cute", I'm 5'7" short but I don't let THAT bother me. But it seems very hard to get back into the game and do the bootcamp when you have to initiate the eye contact yet realize at the same time: She may notice the one eye that looks different. Will she think I'm high? Pink-eye? Allergies? Who knows!
I have a lot to offer. It's this issue that is keeping me from reaching my potential.
any comments appreciated!
thx,
- T
I have no problems chatting up the sales lady, the cashier, where they are paid to be in a customer service role. I'm witty, use plenty of C&F and they usually laugh and engage in the conversation. I've had a few gf's in the past, and after a few dates they've mentioned in passing about what I'm going to tell you, but that's really all it has been - a mentioning of it.
This thing is my eyes tend to be slightly red, with one eye being a pink tone at both corners and sides of the eye all of the time (so only the corners and sides of the eye are a pink color, thus leaving some white between it and the cornea (middle part).
This is something that I've tried to remedy but nothing has worked. It looks like something I'm going to have to live with.
I know this all seems to be cosmetic. I know that I need to somehow block this out. When it's worse than normal, people I know may mention my eyes are red. I tend to let these comments not bother me much.
I know I'm a decent, normal looking guy and can definitely dress stylish and look above average at times. "cute", I'm 5'7" short but I don't let THAT bother me. But it seems very hard to get back into the game and do the bootcamp when you have to initiate the eye contact yet realize at the same time: She may notice the one eye that looks different. Will she think I'm high? Pink-eye? Allergies? Who knows!
I have a lot to offer. It's this issue that is keeping me from reaching my potential.
any comments appreciated!
thx,
- T