resurrected
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Ok, I'm out of an almost 2 year LTR which took a few months to really settle.
So I'm a little rusty on things. Here's the thing, this girl I kissed like when we were really kids showed up around again. And yeah shes really stunning, I would give her a 9 or something just because I refuse to give perfect grade to any human being lol (I can identify a oneitis now, she really is beautiful). Anyway, I know she's getting attention everywhere, so I have to stand out.
Thing is, we just 'met' again for a week or so, but I think her IL is low. I've been throwing invitations for stuff which I don't even wait till she answers, because I will go anyway, so I just tell her she can join me if she wants (has worked before ). But it's not working. And most of the techniques I could use doesn't work well online. I don't like messengers, i keep the conversations short.
There's only a few opportunities to raise IL in person, and I know I'll have to work on that, it's taking awhile cause I am sucking at handling it because she has friends around. I admit it.
Anyway, I know I should next her, if she was just a ***** like most hot chicks I know I wouldn't even care to post (she's interesting). But it became sort of like a personal challenge, even tho I'm sure I won't be sitting waiting for her.
You guys think I should keep the online stuff at that? Quick 'join me if you want' and just try to better the 'in person' game? I have yet to get her phone, I know she will give it to me cause she knows me, but I don't want to end like all these guys around, so I'm thinking an funny/DJ way to get it and get the message clear that she should be interested in expecting a call.
I feel I should immediatly change the game because by experience, there's only a small window before you turn into a friend.
Been reading mostly before my LTR which basically only happened because of this site, and now I'm a little rusty on things.
So I'm a little rusty on things. Here's the thing, this girl I kissed like when we were really kids showed up around again. And yeah shes really stunning, I would give her a 9 or something just because I refuse to give perfect grade to any human being lol (I can identify a oneitis now, she really is beautiful). Anyway, I know she's getting attention everywhere, so I have to stand out.
Thing is, we just 'met' again for a week or so, but I think her IL is low. I've been throwing invitations for stuff which I don't even wait till she answers, because I will go anyway, so I just tell her she can join me if she wants (has worked before ). But it's not working. And most of the techniques I could use doesn't work well online. I don't like messengers, i keep the conversations short.
There's only a few opportunities to raise IL in person, and I know I'll have to work on that, it's taking awhile cause I am sucking at handling it because she has friends around. I admit it.
Anyway, I know I should next her, if she was just a ***** like most hot chicks I know I wouldn't even care to post (she's interesting). But it became sort of like a personal challenge, even tho I'm sure I won't be sitting waiting for her.
You guys think I should keep the online stuff at that? Quick 'join me if you want' and just try to better the 'in person' game? I have yet to get her phone, I know she will give it to me cause she knows me, but I don't want to end like all these guys around, so I'm thinking an funny/DJ way to get it and get the message clear that she should be interested in expecting a call.
I feel I should immediatly change the game because by experience, there's only a small window before you turn into a friend.
Been reading mostly before my LTR which basically only happened because of this site, and now I'm a little rusty on things.