Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Here's a golden nugget of advice; something I employ every so often to keep the girls' IL high--especially if she is hot (could be posted in DJ Tips too but I want the mature dudes to see this):
I've been dating a 9/10 for about 6 months now. The name of the game is going S-L-O-W; this keeps IL high and women respond to it HUGE. Briefly, it goes something like this:
-Show her an AWESOME time on a date; be creative, plan a good mix of "fun" active dates and slower "romantic" dates--always keep her guessing what you have planned. Once in a while, don't tell her what it is and say it's a surprise--they LOVE this. Do not spend big $$ for ANYTHING, YOU are the focal point, not the dinner entree.
-Call her 1-2x week TOPS. Keep the call short; 15-20 min., enough to plan another date, THEN GET OFF the phone.
-A couple mid-week texts or emails are OK.
-NEVER EVER talk crap about feelings, how hot she is, buy her gifts, etc.
-Keep this plan going--do not feel pressured to up the ante at any time. 95% chance she'll be asking for more time in a few weeks. Just keep it slow, fun, exciting, and be a MAN.
Here's the golden nugget:
The girl I have been seeing has been working long hours lately because her dept. is short staffed. She’s also been trying to maintain her gym schedule, get her personal crap done, etc., etc.
We were to do something on sat. night and I was to pick her up at 7:30.
The next day, after we had planned the sat. night date, I emailed her and said I had a thought: I told her to take the weekend off and do all her fun stuff: watch her favorite DVDs, do yoga, take a bath, relax, nap, make herself a good meal, etc. In other words, relax and take time for HERSELF.
This always pays huge dividends because:
1- It shows the girl you don't "need" her--you can get along one weekend on your own
2- You are CONFIDENT in that you feel the relationship is strong, so strong you’re telling her NOT TO SEE YOU for a couple days
3- You come across as a guy who "cares" by letting her loose a bit--kind of like the getting more with less philosophy.
4- 99% of all guys will try and command all of a hot chick's free time because they are so afraid of losing them to another dude, her IL dropping, etc. However, it's the reverse which usually happens (see Law of Scarcity vs. Law of Familiarity).
Give her some time and space at the right moment (the key is YOU recommending it) and you are her f--ing HERO; a super-confident dude unlike most insecure AFCs.
Good luck with it.
Dash
I've been dating a 9/10 for about 6 months now. The name of the game is going S-L-O-W; this keeps IL high and women respond to it HUGE. Briefly, it goes something like this:
-Show her an AWESOME time on a date; be creative, plan a good mix of "fun" active dates and slower "romantic" dates--always keep her guessing what you have planned. Once in a while, don't tell her what it is and say it's a surprise--they LOVE this. Do not spend big $$ for ANYTHING, YOU are the focal point, not the dinner entree.
-Call her 1-2x week TOPS. Keep the call short; 15-20 min., enough to plan another date, THEN GET OFF the phone.
-A couple mid-week texts or emails are OK.
-NEVER EVER talk crap about feelings, how hot she is, buy her gifts, etc.
-Keep this plan going--do not feel pressured to up the ante at any time. 95% chance she'll be asking for more time in a few weeks. Just keep it slow, fun, exciting, and be a MAN.
Here's the golden nugget:
The girl I have been seeing has been working long hours lately because her dept. is short staffed. She’s also been trying to maintain her gym schedule, get her personal crap done, etc., etc.
We were to do something on sat. night and I was to pick her up at 7:30.
The next day, after we had planned the sat. night date, I emailed her and said I had a thought: I told her to take the weekend off and do all her fun stuff: watch her favorite DVDs, do yoga, take a bath, relax, nap, make herself a good meal, etc. In other words, relax and take time for HERSELF.
This always pays huge dividends because:
1- It shows the girl you don't "need" her--you can get along one weekend on your own
2- You are CONFIDENT in that you feel the relationship is strong, so strong you’re telling her NOT TO SEE YOU for a couple days
3- You come across as a guy who "cares" by letting her loose a bit--kind of like the getting more with less philosophy.
4- 99% of all guys will try and command all of a hot chick's free time because they are so afraid of losing them to another dude, her IL dropping, etc. However, it's the reverse which usually happens (see Law of Scarcity vs. Law of Familiarity).
Give her some time and space at the right moment (the key is YOU recommending it) and you are her f--ing HERO; a super-confident dude unlike most insecure AFCs.
Good luck with it.
Dash
